Jan 3
sometimes i am afraid i am overdoing it when i talk about “hey. isn’t this thing kind of woman-hatey” and then i think about it for longer than a second and it’s like no actually we need to get woker NOW.
#fam put on a silly xmas movie about a guy accidentally finding a baby and having to take care of it for 24 hrs (?)#and the comedy all comes from this guy being so incompetent about it. not knowing how to change a diaper or burp a baby or anything#yeah haha so funny! man doesn’t know how to take care of a child! what an uncommon trope!#do we ever see women in this trope..?#talking to my sisters earlier about men using the word ‘bitch’ actually i do not like it at all. very selective cases in which im ok w it#my sister was like ‘yeah its weird from straight men but kind of funny if gay men’ no actually. respectfully i disagree#whether ur attracted to women has NOTHING to do with whether u respect women as people actually!!!#and being gay does not exempt u from misogyny!!!#really feeling thag one ‘i cannot stop seeing it’ meme like that literally is how it is.#h*eated r*valry too. happy to get another mainstream mlm media but i also cannot help but think#the exact same story w/ female leads would not have gotten a FRACTION of the attention#n on that note have watched so much tv (uncharacteristic for me) over break so far#too many characters that are Women and not People. do u get what i mean. male writers gain some fucking empathy challenge#i will probablt delete this in the morning im just upset abt specific little things that have piled up this break#+ shitty takes i keep seeing online. the gr*k bullshit on twt is nauseating genuinely#ugh.#thinking.#that slow realization u have in high school that even ur best male friends talk to each other in such a nauseatingly different way#than they do with you#all of them! never let ur guard down.#have even heard shitty takes from the otherwise nicest men ive met bc its such a. specific flavor of ignorance#and i never ever blame people for not experiencing/understanding smth as long as they have an open mind#but its literally a shock sometimes. how much that ignorance is enabled.#like ‘i don’t hold it against u for having an ignorant view before someone explains an experience to u but also how the fuck did u develop#that in the first place when it’s literally not an option for anyone treated like a girl growing up’#phae.txt#GRAHHHHHHHHHH.#i have more to say . but this is disjoint enough as it is