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I just saw the date 2020 and at first I was like “oh yeah that’s like 20 years away or so”

guys

2020 is 2 years away

2 YEARS

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I really like kissing my friends. I’m not talking full-on lips or anything, I just mean simple, chaste kisses on their foreheads, cheeks, etc. It’s a nice reminder to them that they are loved, and is especially comforting when they are sad. 

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I wonder how many miles I’ve scrolled on this website

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never trust a person who chooses table over booth

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Hi so I get that bisexuality means being attracted to more than one gender but why is it so hard for me to understand that I'm attracted to more than one gender

I’ve had this problem too, and for me, the reason it was hard for me to accept it was because of my upbringing. I was raised in a very homophobic household, and those ideologies were forced on me to the point where I thought it was normal to be heternormative. This caused a lot of self-issues, because I felt this attraction to both men and women, but it conflicted with the ideology I grew up with. I was very confused for a long, long time. And of course I didn’t feel like I could tell anyone about it, because I thought that everyone was homophobic, too. I definitely couldn’t go to my parents. 

However, as I grew older, I became educated and was able to create my own stance on the matter. I now identify as bisexual regardless if I am dating a man or a woman, and I’m proud of it. I think that you may be having the same problem. You grow up thinking you’re a certain way, but come to find out, you’re not - and that’s okay. Things change. People change. Everything changes. What matters is how you feel, not what anyone else thinks. You don’t even need to label your sexuality either, especially if you don’t quite fit in one particular category, because there’s a whole spectrum you could be on. Gay, straight, bisexual, asexual, etc. are just the big names. You don’t have to fully understand yourself. 

Just live your life how you want it, and I promise you’re going to be happy. You’ll figure it out - I know it. I hope this helped. Feel free to send me another message either on or off anon :D

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my family didn’t have any mistletoe to hang up for christmas so my dad used broccoli instead

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can someone explain to me why boys are so awful

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NEW VIDEO - MORE Weird Things Girls Do EXPLAINED

hey guys - today I explain some more confusing things about girls and why we do the things we do. Give it a watch if you like and you can subscribe here :D and if you want to see the first video I did on this click here. thanks - I’ll see you guys next week! -ingridawesome