Ace Spectrum Inbox Questions: 5, 10, 15
5: What do you think about words like “hot” or “sexy”, etc.? Do you feel that you understand or experience them the same way or differently than others?
I feel like I’ve got an understanding of what they mean. I’ve definitely thought “wow they look really hot” plenty of times, and I know somebody looks sexy when they’re wearing something/acting sexual. I thought everybody thought the same way but I guess other people sometimes see people they find hot/sexy and also get a bodily reaction/think “I want to do sexual things with them” and I definitely don’t experience that.
10: Have you ever pretended not to be asexual or otherwise hidden your asexuality, in order to fit in?
As in like, acted like or said I do feel sexual attraction? Nope.
15: Are there concepts about your asexuality that you feel are missing words to describe them?
Umm, kind of? Like the fact that I do find hotness attractive and not all aces do. Otherwise I’m a pretty simple case.