Friends and Friendship - Who are Friends, What is friendship
A person who smiles and tries to make us smile even in times of sadness is considered a friend. A person who intends to make us cry, even in times of happiness in their thoughts, looks, gestures and actions is treated as an enemy. Friends come in all sorts and so are the enemies. Few types of friendship understanding the feelings of hostility while some types of enmity includes kindness. But I opine an enemy is a great friend as a progressive step on the scale "experiments" in living life. When the mind is soft with age, when heart bubbles with joy of friendship, where the experience of happiness, but never dark is evaluated, we choose people who smile at us as our friends. The mystery and history of the enemy starts from now. Do not draw the same hostility from some people while friendship with others. We tend to overlook some people that we do not we start to like some so-called friends. Do not hate anyone in the process of making friends. This will help you live a balanced life between friends and enemies. But how does one become an enemy? Is there a process for the enmity that takes place between two people? Although we do not know well, we tend to have hostile feelings toward them altogether without reason. The reason is attributed to their hostile relationship in their past lives. Some people develop the enmity of others because of jealousy, beauty, skill, knowledge, prosperity, education, relationships, competition with others and because of many reasons over the world. How do such an act enemies in your presence? They act as if they care less for you, as if they try to ignore your presence, moving in close collaboration with people they do not even know well, try to expose their talents if exist or not; act with love to those around them, unless you laugh unnecessarily showing that if they are not affected at all by your division and are very happy without you and so on and so forth. How you treat your enemies when they act in error? You'll be more angry watching all the events. Instead of getting rabies, to remain silent. Give them time to think about all the crazy things they've done so far. When someone is angry, it is wise to leave them alone if they are not appeased by your words of appeasement. The human being has become so selfish that it is unable to withstand even a single word of negation. Each member of his body is composed of the ego that leads to hatred and other bad feelings in him. The best thing is to try to control his selfish nature that moves in him like the wind, whose direction can not be a question of trust. If you also act like them, what is the difference between you and your enemies? After you calm, think with a generous heart, spirit of tolerance and try to overcome their negative attitude. But is it easy to see if they initially are your enemies? How to distinguish between friends and enemies? Some friends might actually be your enemies. How to react in such cases? All persons are similar to what we are facing the consequences good or bad with them. You should be careful in speaking even a word to a person. First they act as friends but if something does not go against their expectations or when they feel jealous about you or the moment they change their minds to develop friendship with another person, they then put on their costumes of enmity. But without realizing all this, you behave as if they are your good old friends and almost anything you share with them. Some people have a way of forcing you to throw all your thoughts and actions by their unspeakable sweet simple words. They even speak ill of others and indirectly opens way for you to take part and thus fill their dirty mind hunger. They act as a memory of a computer and fingerprint everyone is talking about the bad, and then wait for the right time to let him out with ornaments attached to the lie the truth they have heard little. They act as friends and even less to act, they really are your friends today. But as the days pass, as life changes one day, you and your friend will be called an argument or misunderstanding, and here is an opportunity for him or her to break all your relationships with almost any of your friends in you defame. They even go as far to approach your friends with the sole intention of breaking glass as a relationship with them. Even a minute negative incident in your life as your health or loss of something will be made visible and they make a mountain out of an anthill. They do not speak the truth but they speak lies, to create stories about you and they even use your tongue and some incidents of your friends you normally tell them to your own friends do not believe you almost to the maximum. You might have actually said some incidents of your friends to them as any other common issue, but they add things and the falsity of this real incident and make them think you're wrong all possible means. But people listen to all this nonsense? People generally think that people will say anything except the truth. Sweet lie is the trend in the modern era and almost every one believes that it is fascinating to the curious mind. If it is people who believe in what they hear, they add spice to lie a lie and it becomes an existing channel to talk about other people and it goes on and on forever. Finally, it arises in every heart concussion while the fire as rabies is cooled in the heart of someone and it will be your friend VS. enemy that launched it all, whose only goal was to break your relationship with your good friends and other people, which was completed today. The spirit of an enemy is more toxic than a snake. When you are prompted to choose between an enemy and a snake, better choose the latter you will die at once. If you choose the first, you will die every minute of their toxic actions and unknown behavior. How to react when you are locked into the network of hostile relations? Be positive, even in the midst of negative minds. Do not forget your real friends do not let their faith in you wither away with lying. They remain good friends forever. There are people who are reasonable enough to think that there should be two hands to create sound and this would not have been possible with one hand or mind. There are good people but not your friends who frankly tell the person trying to speak ill of you who do not believe in talking so bad and they prefer not to hear such things further. To some extent, it acts like a slap on their face. But is that truth is ever known to all the people? Time is the only factor that determines its own actions, good or bad. Time dictates only the truth and not your nobility and truth. So pray for the divine truth revealed, but never lose your confidence. It becomes your curse and their greater good, do not give them another chance. Often, your enemies tend to overlook the truth that life is a circle and is full of actions and reactions and that one day they will be in a situation you are today and it is then they realize their mistakes and sins. They can not feel the presence of the deity's eyes look at their evil deeds, setting up in a heap only to be faced in the future. Until then, they just keep making the same mistakes again and again. But he must smile to life and walk on the bitter experiences of becoming a perfect being. In fact, God is your true friend and there is no third person who can understand you better and can mirror you as well as himself. Be careful all your life not to mention everything that relates to any person who is absent at this time. Tell your heart that apply directly to the person, but never talk behind someone, even for fun. Fun-talk can be told stories by your enemies. But in truth, the enemies are real friends. You both appear to be the enemies of the world, but your enemy is your best friend. Without your enemy you have not learned all bitter in your life, a lesson not to blindly trust everyone, a lesson not to talk about something else, even for fun on person to truly learn to think 100 times before speaking a word; Your enemies are chosen indirectly by you to teach you lessons and reflect your actions. Do not feel bad that you lost your year or two of the friendship of the people, but rather a pleasure that you've learned the life lessons you learn at 10 or 100 births a year just in one lifetime. After walking on the path of "Bitter Experiences" let go of the hate you forever, then it's not following you like a dark shadow in your life. Rest of your life you will be able to walk with confidence and sincerity on the road to "happiness" that actually helps you go farther and farther, higher and higher on the life of your stay. "Smile at your enemies to hack the roots of hostility; pray for them to learn to walk on the right track." Sharmila Sanka-
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