Hey loves. I was going to wait 'til this weekend but I'll just crack on with an update now. Apologies for this long ass post, but the time has come for a big old change with the way I play here. I've been writing on tumblr since 2013 and whilst I don't want to give that up fully, I can't sustain things the way I have been doing.
To give insight on how my life's been running (not that it's all that much, but it's a lot for me), I've been trying to cram in up to 42 hours of work a week; a social activity nearly every evening; time with my family; time to work on my personal writing as well as fanfiction; time to learn languages; time to even vaguely tidy my house. I'm not keeping on top of my health mentally or physically, I'm neglecting my cats and my environment and my husband and I'm sure as heck not getting exercise or a moment to breathe. In that one hour or so each day in the working week I'm trying to desperately cram in tumblr like it's some sort of job instead of having proper fun with it.
I am now making the tough decision that I will be retiring a large amount of my writing partnerships, some with whom I have written for a long time. I'm sure this will have a range of reactions from 'sure dude that's cool' to abject disappointment and anywhere on the spectrum of that is valid. For my own health and life balance, I need to do this, so to those of you I part with, it's been wonderful writing with you and thank you for the memories and scenarios we've built together. I should be messaging most of you, but if you're someone who hasn't replied to any threads for a while I may just quietly slip off. Some of you will be on shared discord servers so you won't lose me there.
I will be keeping things Loki is absolutely frothing to continue, and this doesn't mean I'm not open to picking things up here and there as my whims decree. I will possibly also start replying to things out of order if I can find the balance between impulse and my desperate need for rigid structure. But that's the long and short of it. I want to limit my amount of partners so I can enjoy fully and more frequently the stories we're telling together and maybe even engage a bit more instead of only playing writing tennis.
Thanks for understanding, everyone xxx