Since no one has talked to you about gender, I'll talk about mine. In the span of couple months I went from agender to libramasculine, then I wanted to understand xenogenders and read a lot about them, then when I was having a conversation with my bf I realized that I could be kingender myself. I finally feel content with my gender. I also read about neopronouns not being necessarily used to reflect one's gender identity so I adopted some.
I've always felt a bit weird about calling myself agender because I don't understand why that would be "a thing I should be" so much as a way of framing a vague thing-about-myself ("in the moment"/"sometimes") I could go with, but I've never really liked that label anyway, so I feel like there aren't even any good, concrete reasons to stick with it. (E.g. if there's something special about agender experiences that I need to focus on, or otherwise want to highlight, I'd probably just say I've had experiences with "a lack of gender identity" and leave it there.)
As for my experience, it's a bit different from yours in that I've had some pretty stable, consistent feelings for a while (I'd say "about three months"), whereas you didn't realize you could have a non-binary gender until fairly recently. But I am interested in reading about neopronouns. (I think some of them have already been mentioned by you, or something along those lines?)
