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I hope you all have the pleasure of watching a dom you love so so so much learn and grow into their dom head space, that you get to see them become something they maybe only dreamed of or maybe never even thought they could be.
and i hope everyone of you meets the joy of thinking "I helped them"
I can't write the post I want to post but
Treat doms like people not mind reading kink vending machines.
A dom who is making sure you eat enough, drink enough, get enough sleep ect ect are making a huge emotional and time commitment.
even a relaxed 24/7 kinda arrangement is a heavy load for EVERYONE. and requires so so so much communication
no seriously don't treat doms like fantasy factories if you can't hold a conversation about what you want from a relationship you probably shouldn't be trying to have that relationship.
To paraphrase my daddy "to treat you like a child you have to communicate like an adult" and my goodness some of the posts on the website make me worried for y'all.
my dom? no you misheard me, that's my dad. no I know its younger than me, thats literally my father though
once again wanna scream from the rooftops about how d/s is a collaborative effort.
theyre making puppies work so early :((((( even the sleepy ones
URL Change
puppyspiss -> pottypup
on account of, I'm not allowed to say one of those words anymore.
take tit pics on company time. [check reblogd]
okay figured out what I hated about this post
the idea that sadism is good and okay bc it fulfills the needs of masochists is bad.
fantasies about raping someone, beating them bloody, tying them up and starving them, preforming immoral surgeries or *whatever* aren't okay bc there's someone out there dreaming of being raped, beat bloodly, or tied up and starved, or operated on. they're okay bc they are okay.
being a sadist is morally neutral. your fantasies, wants and desires exsist as okay on their own, even if you never find someone to share them with.
I hate hate hate the way masochists, bottoms and subs treat sadists, tops, and doms as fantasy vending machines, as valuable only in their capacity to fulfill our desires. that they are commodities that exsiat as good only while they are doing something deemed worth while.
