I just. Idk, I find it so. Funny.
Funny that like. Some people can just. Use plurality as an excuse for their actions?
Amnesia barriers aren't an excuse.
"Violent" alters aren't an excuse.
For us, nothing just Happened for No Reason. Our brain responds to percieved threats in the moment. Whatever the fallout is, we take accountability together.
I went down that path of excusing actions due to alters and it got me in a Lot of trouble, and I lost a Lot of friends. It's not a fun path and it's definitely not a Vibe you should go for.
Whatever transpired and whether you remember it or not, if it hurt someone or made people uncomfortable, take fucking responsibility.
Don't just go "oh, that was [x]", "oh it was because [x] doesn't like [y]", etc etc etc
If one person messes up, it's up to you, as the main host and essentially frontman for the system, to take responsibility and apologize for whatever damage was done.
Don't blame it on amnesia barriers. Don't blame it on alters. And absolutely don't try and sweep it under the rug and go about your business.
That's just cowardly. And we do not have sympathy for cowards.
- Nny 🗑 (persecutor, protector) + Tomie 🖤