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Welcome to the Graveyard
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Not knowing ur plural is like “im like… genderfluid+. I got the upgraded version. It includes age, personality, memory, and more!”
took the husband to the aquarium today for a date. the fish were cool,
System Ask Game!
Some of these are personal questions, so it's up to the system to answer them!
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Introject Ask Game
(This ask game will probably continue to be updated, feel free to check the original post to see if there's more.)
Are there any in-sys friend groups that wouldn't happen in canon, but make sense to you?
What source do you have the most fictives from?
Do people often change their names after splitting?
Who has the coolest name in your opinion?
What's your favorite thing about your source?
Least favorite thing about your source?
Do you like your source's fandom? Why or why not?
Have you ever met any sourcemates outside of your system?
What's a quote or lyric that reminds you of yourself?
Is your source popular?
Who's your best friend in-sys? Would your sources be friends, do you think?
Do you miss anyone from your source?
What do you look like in the head? How does that compare to your source? The body?
What's your favorite song?
Do you like talking about your past?
What's your biggest fear? Is it related to your source?
okay fictive heavy system ask game just because i felt like it.
is the host a fictive?
is there any in-sys dating, and if so, what's the funniest couple?
do you have any introjects from sources not everyone knows?
what's the funniest source anyone has?
are there any grudges from in-source between people?
do people change their names when they're split or do they keep their old names?
who has the funniest split story?
what are people's thoughts on fanfiction?
what are people's thoughts on fanart?
does anyone hate their source or their source's fandom?
what's the source with the most introjects?
what's the source with the fewest introjects?
who do people miss the most?
DID / OSDD ask game
🌲 How has your numbers of parts changed over time?
🌻 Favorite quote from a part.
🌾 Any songs you relate to DID / OSDD?
🌙 Share a special relationship between parts.
🌊 Any inside jokes in your system?
🌺 Describe one part of your inner world.
🌍 Can you change your inner world and access it freely?
🐛 Which part made a lot of progress?
🍂 Did a fusion happen in your system?
☀️ How do you all prefer to communicate?
🌱 How open are you about your DID / OSDD?
🌄 Did you ever went through phases of denial?
🗻 How much does your inner world feel like home?
🍁 How do your parts get their names?
🌈 Are there any parts who view themselves as something other than human? Or who have supernatural powers?
🦔 Are there any parts of you that you miss?
👥 Is there a person you all can be yourselves around?
🦚 Ho covered / overt is your DID / OSDD?
❔ (ask any other question)
PLURAL ASK GAME (30 questions)
Have an ask game we came up with while waiting around at the hospital today!!!
Remember to practice reblog karma!!*
*reblog karma does not apply to us/the original post, but you're free to send us asks anyways; and if you do, send them to @thecorpsefactory
❤️ — How many hosts do you currently have, and how many have you had in total?
🧡 — Do any of your hosts (current or previous) have sub/side/hemi/etc-system(s)?
💛 — Do people in your system retire from their roles/'jobs' often/do you have a high turnover rate?
💚 — Do you have an inner world? If so how many? And can you (or any headmate) control any of them?
💙 — If there are certain plural terms that your system doesn't like what are they? And why?
💜 — Do you have any age or age-identity that has more people aligning with it than others? (i.e. more 16 year olds than anything, more agesliders, etc)
🤎 — Is your system collectively any form of otherkin or therian? If so how did you figure out you were that collectively? And do any individual headmates not identify with it?
🖤 — Is there any type of role or headmate you wish you had more of? (i.e. more protectors, more traumaholders, more endogenic headmates, more walk-ins, etc)
🤍 — Do you have any system visitors? (i.e. someone who doesn't live in your system but stops by sometimes— doesn't have to be able to front)
💌 — Are there distinctions between headmates' handwriting? If so who has the worst handwriting? And who has the best?
💐 — Are there any headmates who can do something IRL that the rest can't? (i.e. sing, use chopsticks, dance, do math, etc)
🌹 — Any headmates have over 20 different names?
🥀 — If you have an inner world are there any places from real life that are there? Or any places inspired by real life?
🌺 — If you're a primarily queer system, are there any cishets? And if you're a primarily cishet system are there any queer headmates?
🌷 — Are there any multisourced headmates with over 15 different sources?
🌸 — Is there anyone taller than 60ft/18.2m?
🌻 — If you use emojis (or other symbols) to indicate headmates, have there ever been fights over who gets what?
🌼 — If you could describe your system in words that have nothing to do with plurality or spirituality, how would you?
🌑 — What's the most obscure source anyone has? (OCs do not count)
🌒 — Do you have anyone who wants nothing to do with their source, and doesn't identity with it, but still uses with their name and/or appearance from their source?
🌓 — Do any headmates have allergies that carry over to the body when fronting? If so do they act like normal allergies or are they more 'mild'?
🌔 — Are there any headmates who struggle with modern technology? If so why?
🌕 — Can anyone speak any languages in headspace that they can't speak bodily?
🍎 — If you experience amnesia barriers, are there any headmates who have inconsistent barriers? (i.e. sometimes sharing memories fine, other times being unable to, only being able to share with a select few, etc)
🍏 — What is the highest amount of headmates you've ever had at any given moment? And what is the lowest amount you've had at any given moment?
🍋 — If you have an inner world, has it always been there? Or did you have to work to create it?
🍍 — If you're religious, do any of your headmates practice a religion different from your collective one?
🍉 — If you have an inner world, do you have inner variants of social media or other forms of digital contact? (i.e. phones, laptops, etc)
🫐 — If you're publicly a system, who was the first person(s) you told? And why? What was their reaction?
🍒 — Do you have any headmates that originate from a system other than your own, but now reside within yours?
[ PLAIN TEXT ] We Are A Diagnosed Traumagenic DID System We Are Pro Endogenic And You Will Not Change Our Mind If You Harass Us You Give Us Consent To Harass You Back
✨️Constellation✨️
✨️Corner✨️
Hihi! I saw some hate blogs posting system ask games. We don't stand for hate around here because everyone deserves a space for their system regardless of origin. Without further ado- here's our version uwu. Feel free to tag systems that are okay with ask games!!
-Presley
🛰-Do you have a large headcount?
👾-Do any alters in your system have typing quirks?
🚀-Does your system have any Non-human alters?
☄️-Is your system neurodivergent?
🔭-Does your system use neo Pronouns?
🌠-Do any of the alters in your system have dyed hair?
🌙-Are there any nonverbal alters in your system?
🪐-Do any in your system have any unique roles?
💫-Do your littles use 'little speech'?'
🌌-Does your system have little to no amnesia between switches
🌟-Does your system have fairly clear communication?
🌘-Do you have a large or complex headspace?
🛸-Do you have any fictives in your system? What about Factives?
👽-Does your system have any tics?
☀️-Is your system bad at masking?
✨️-Do any in your system have an accent?
🌎-Do any in your system speak in a different language?
☁️-Does your system use things like pluralkit and simply plural?
⭐️-Are you out about being a system?
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!! ASK GAME !!
I guarantee no accuracy lol
👥 - How many people are in your system
🎨 - What's everyone's favorite colors?
⌚ - Most common fronters?
🧾 - Collective pronouns?
📚 - Everyone's pronouns?
🍼 - Most common age group?
🎞 - Do you have any fictives?
💖 - Are there any romantic relationships in your system?
🔢 - Does anyone have a favorite number?
🧠 - Are any of your alters neurodivergent?
🏳🌈 - How many people are LGBTQIA+
👽 - Do you have any non-human alters (including hybrids)?
🏓 - What are some common hobbies?
😋 - What is the most liked food between everyone?
👀 - Current hyperfixations?
📖 - Do you guys have any collective interests?
🗺 - What is your headspace like? (If you have one)
🐕 - Does anyone have a pet?
🏷 - Does your system have a name?
💭 - Does anyone wanna share something about their source? Feel free to ramble, anyone can answer too!
💥 - Most chaotic group?
😇 - Any demon/angel/god alters?
👴 - Who is the oldest?
🏥 - Are you diagnosed? If yes, was it difficult? If not, do you want one & why or why not?
🏡 - What is your system dynamic (ex, family, friends, complete strangers, etc)
🔂- How do you keep track of your system? (Members, switches, etc)
🐣- Any childhood things that should've tipped you off to being a system?
👍- Do you like being a system?
📤- Do you know any systems IRL?
💕- Do you prefer in-system dating or out-of-system dating?
🙄- What's the most annoying thing about being a system?
❔ - How bad is your amnesia?
💬- Best quote from an alter?
🎮- Do alters have separate accounts for games or do you all share an account?
⬇️ Joke ones ⬇️
🐎 - how often do your alters think about the Trojan empire?
🔮 - do you believe in gravity?
System ask game: Questions for whoever is fronting edition
What's your name? How did you get it?
How old are you? Does it change, or do you stay the same age?
What's your gender and sexuality?
What's your species?
If money wasn't an issue, where would you want to travel?
What's your dream job?
If you have exomemories, was your old life very different from your current one?
What kinda music do you like? Feel free to share a playlist if you have one!
Is there anyone in your system that you're extra close to?
Do you have your own space in headspace? What's it like?
How often do you front? Is fronting easy or difficult for you?
Is it easy or hard for you to communicate with the others in your system?
Do you have any friends/family/partners outside your system?
Post a picture of how you look! (FC, Picrew, selfie, drawing, etc)
Is there anyone in your system you absolutely don't get along with?
How would you describe your personal aesthetic?
Do you have any skills or talents the others don't?
Are you part of any fandoms, subcultures, communities etc?
Is there anything that makes it obvious you're the one fronting (accent, tone of voice, quirks, etc)?
What's a silly fear you have?
What are some of your current goals?
Favorite food?
Favorite drink?
Favorite ice cream flavor?
Was it hard for you to adapt to being part of a system?
How do you spend your time when you aren't fronting?
How do you like to dress?
What's a belief of yours that others might consider weird?
Do you do anything creative (writing, drawing, roleplaying, stitching, cosplaying, etc)? Feel free to show off some of your work!
How do you personally explain your system's plurality? (Spiritual, psychological, gateway, soulbond, neurogenic, etc)
Do you have any disorders or neurodivergencies that the rest of the system doesn't?
If your system has disorders or neurodivergencies, do your symptoms differ from the others'?
If you could pick a super power, what would it be?
What's your favorite thing about yourself?
Do you have a system role?
We're so bored pls-
Hey. Dude. Don’t fucking interact with anti endos if you don’t want us interacting with you. Thank you.
And yet you guys go out of your way to harass endo systems and their supporters, not to mention cross tag your hate into endo circles and tags, soooooo... One of us has to change XD
Anyway, if that's all the dialogue options u got, hope u have a day! 💜
- Tomie 🖤
"systemhood is inherently disordered, you can't be a system if you aren't disordered" that's a funny way to say that you don't view functional multiplicity as a viable recovery option.
Small rant but just saw a blog that said "We are a traumaendo system" and immediately hit block.
WHAT EVEN IS THAT??? TRAUMAENDO??? If it means "I'm an endosystem with trauma!!" that's. So ridiculous (I don't care enough to look up the term)
Traumaendo, as defined by pluralpedia is a mixed-origin system with both traumagenic and endogenic origins.
Basically, they're a traumagenic system but not all of their alters formed due to obvious trauma, maybe some sort of work/academic stress, interpersonal tension etc.
I think most traumaendos don't realise that just because you split due to some sort of stress other than trauma after the initial failure to fuse, it doesn't mean that you are then part endogenic as well. It's a pretty common thing in CDD havers to split due to other stressors as opposed to it being obvious trauma.
I've talked about this before but yes exactly this.
While I obviously don't agree with it, I can understand how some people would come to these conclusions while shifting through so much misinformation. If someone believes that only traumas create alters, then it makes sense as to how someone could identify as "mixed origin". They falsely believe that any alters formed or split for reasons other than explicit trauma means that they can't be traumagenic.
As much as I wish people would do better research, It's pretty normal for people to falsely believe things after being told the misinformation enough times.
This is why I still firmly believe that the best way to combat this isnt by fighting or arguing, it's by continuing to pass around factually correct information and continue to counter misinformation.
Hot take, but this is a big part of psychology. It's literally word of mouth. You think we wouldn't have the advancements in different mental disorders, much less plurality, if people just didn't give their experiences?
That's why I say so often, listen to endo systems and at least give them the respect and space to hear them out. half of yall treat shit like those social media fights of protests that yall forget, you're not in a place to judge either.
listen to people. hear them out. i'd rather give them a kindness they may not deserve than withhold a kindness to someone who may need it.
and this was apparently such a spicy take for an ex acquaintance of mine that they cut me off, but that's not the point.
if people don't talk about their experiences in mental health, much less plurality, how do you think pluralpedia or any major informational, formal or otherwise, databases would look? Pretty fucking barren.
anyway, that's my own paragraph. be kind, love yall. 💜 its just people behind screens at the end of the day. if you have nothing nice or helpful to say, just keep it pushin, grab a fruit snack or not, up to u, on the way out.
- Tomie 🖤
No actually they're loud as fuck
"All systems are different and valid!!"
Except most of the time they exclusively mean traumagenic systems.
And even then,if a system is too much different they're suddenly invalid.
Traumagenic spaces are wierd and hypocritical sometimes.
- ???
One time when I was a sysmed I went under cover as an endo system. Not to mess with the endo community but to see how my community behaved towards endo systems when no one was looking. I had a whole ARG style plot in my head to see if sysmeds would be accepting of "an endo discovering they're traumagenic" and lemme tell you i didn't finish my undercover search because the harassment was so bad I had to delete my account before they doxxed me. I pretended to be 14 too by the way. That's when my views on things started to shake. The things those systems said to me in private when they thought they were talking to an endo actually were EXTREMELY ableist and just disgusting. Not to the character I was playing per se but to trauma victims and medical systems a whole. Demanding that all systems worked the same or similar and that only certain trauma was real and valid.
Yeah maybe you can't be ableist towards an identity that is not a disability but you can still say words that are ableist and be a huge piece of shit. That's what endos have been trying to tell us dense mothernfuckers.