the worst thing about the lesbophobic/bi phobic arguments is that women are yelling and ranting and just creating a hugely hostile, unsafe environment it's OKAY that lesbians / bisexuals have different struggles. it's OKAY if you prefer to date someone who can better relate to those struggles. it's NOT okay to demean someone based on their sexual orientation. I mean come on??? you're part of the queer community, you should know better and it is NEVER okay to be rude, immature, or downright harass another human being. I have been here--so frustrated that I resorted to name calling and childish rhetoric. I was wrong to do that. I understand the frustration. but all I'm asking for is kindness. just be nice. why is that hard?










