#poly unperk

[bluerose678]

Ten and a half months...

My boyfriend and I have parted ways today, after 10.5 amazing months. To say I’m heartbroken is an understatement. I love him and feel more lost than I have these past few months. I hope he finds happiness, doesn’t forget me, and keeps in touch. 

As for me, I can’t promise I will be here too much. I had already slowed my queue down, but may more as my mood shifts. I had started to look for a local boyfriend in addition to my dcp, but I just don’t know where my head or my heart will be. Sometimes love really sucks. 

[bluerose678]

I'm in love, but he's not poly.

So I need help or advice from both polyamorous and monogamous people. I have fallen in love with a man I met on the internet. We have been dating online for almost 6 months. He loves me, but isn't sure he should meet me in person because he feels it's wrong since I'm married and have children.

I've explained the relationship I have with my husband in every way I can think. We are polyamorous and me being with another is not cheating for us. He was raised to believe in monogamous relationships and is struggling with his emotions.

Has anyone had a situation like this or any advice that can be shared? I refuse to push him into something that doesn't feel right for him, but I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around us loving each other and THIS being the obstacle to our happiness.