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Do you know the phrase, "your inner child doesn't belong in the bedroom" ?

Its baseline, lowest common denominator kink theory.

That consuming your trauma through play is generally frowned upon and can be disingenuous or downright dishonest to potential partners.

This dissociation of real shit that happened to you can traumatize you further and or cause damage to relationships outside of the bedroom.

Not only would you have to seriously disclose these things with every potential partner before engaging the exact same scene of play, in case of trigger, but its more important to me that the phrase emphasizes learning self discipline and discretion while empathizing with those whose trauma does not facilitate certain kinds of play ever.

Kink bars no one but I think the idea that there is no safe or unsafe play is nuts. Any informed kink engagement protects us more than to pretend kink praxis is do whatever you want to and with anyone forever.

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Black American here. Stop telling Americans to stop comparing this place to Nazi Germany. Don't get it twisted. Chattel Slavery was genocide. Indigenous genocide is very real. The Final Solution were specific tactics adapted from American racism and newly depraved as the war ramped up and more genocide was emboldened. It's not that it's not always been bad here, it's that these "arguments" silence apt comparisons that prompt direct action and to put it simply, you're all fucking downplaying Nazi fucking Germany.

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I think the white, binary assumption that sexuality or gender can never be fluid has been very damaging to out queer unity. The obsession with egg cracking rather than informed choice is white and predatory, just as the white queer obsession with witnessing coming out has always been entirely unhelpful.

Went on a date with a trans guy once where he said "I know I'm a man but also I genuinely love newfound male privilege, I'm safer."

And as an agender woman, you best believe I'm gonna use male assuming appearance to make jobs less of a fucking headache. I know straight men who use to be gay and trans men who used to be lesbian.

I bounce between demisexuality and bisexuality. Agender and bigender in my own head and I say. The difference is my own to fucking sort through.

What if. Hear me out. We informed discretion instead of queer individualism. What if. We embraced unity and celebration of difference.

My final words on the matter is that you don't have to come out if you're not safe. You're also not required to if you are.

Every individual's queer truth is their own.

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Reblog this post with your cat. I need to cleanse my eyeballs

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