#isff

[ienactforcefem]

if youre 'monitoring' a trans woman and waiting for her to 'slip up', youre a cop, a transmisogynyist, and a stalker. why do you think trans women are so afraid of publicly existing? why do you think trans women are often so separatist? because we're fucking monitored and instantly pounced upon the moment we step out of line, i.e. do something deemed even remotely unacceptable by a transmisogynist stalker.

[isuggesttakingestrogen]

I feel like she has a fundamental misunderstanding of multiple things here

Hi straight up editing for more visibility: it got worse

[bisforbutch]

Images that are evergreen

Edit: Jughead also hopes all terfs die violently

[missstrogen]

See the thing that's wild to me and that these people love lying about is that like, for months when isuggestforcefem was first started, i would get asks that were like "what about men?". And I would answer them for a while, but like, HALF of all asks i used to get back then were those. What about men? What about men? And, this was a space for girls right, a space meant for girls primarily. And while men can be here, it started feeling Really grating after months of that, of being reminded that I really should include men more! That I should think about men more when I post, that i should talk about forcemasc, that, what about men?

The reality that none of them bother to think about, because they want a target to hate, is that I was overhwelmingly polite for months. I was like, well this isn't really the place to focus on men but you can do what you want!

But it only takes one day! It only took one day of me getting pissed for me to be branded as a hater of trans men. Because that's how it started. I Dared to post "Forcemasc fans dni" because, yeah! I was pissed that my blog focused on women was getting more asks about men than about my actual focus! But when you're a woman on the internet you have to always be palettable. And that was too much, so that was it. When a men talks about how women sucks it's accepted as a vent post but if a woman Dares to not be always palettable, even once, that's it. And you're calling her horrible things, paving over the hundreds of times that she was patient, explained that some things aren't centered around men.

And then there's nothing she can say that will make you change your mind. Because that's the worst part! As soon as i slipped up once, dared to have an emotional reaction, there was nothing i could do, and I had people harassing me, taking all my words in the worst way possible. I was blamed for it, then, I was told that I shouldn't have said that in the first place (ignoring the circumstances, of course), and that I shouldn't attack innocent people, when I dared to mention the very real ways my harassers had hurt me, when I was banned the first time. Worse even, when that happened, they didn't even wait for me to say anything, they would just call me horrible for things I hadn't done, for Daring to send harassment to isuggestforcemasc, both ignoring the harassment he had caused and the fact that I had not said or done a thing, aside from, you know. Being banned by an obvious transmisognynistic hate campaign.

Ultimately, any evidence that I don't hate men, no matter the amount, doesn't matter to these people, because they hate (trans) women. They hate trans women, we have to understand this. They are not misguided, not when they take you always at your worst. This is a hate movement, and a very simple strategy. Bother a trans woman until she says something wrong, and then you have the perfect excuse to harass her forever. This is how it works, do not mistake it for misguidedness.

The purpose is hate. I do not hate men, but were I to, I would not blame myself for it.

[jingerpi]

watching the matrix again and had an idea

[capnsoapy]

[tumblr] circa 2025

[iadviseforcefem]

You there! Sad boy with a pull towards lesbianism that you can't explain! You've heard about trans women before, you know we exist. Do you feel you need permission to be one of us? Do you feel like you couldn't be a sister, despite all the signs pointing that way?

If so, consider this your permission.

[we-will-forcefem-you]

"But why do you need to coercively *force* a gender on him"

Girl where do you think the 'him' came from in the first place