#pot date

[sugarslifestylee]

Am I a needy bitch for already having a list of things I’m going to ask this man for after he’s already given me $ to pay my bills, gotten my nails done + an outfit to wear to our dinner date? Nah

[techsugar]

M&G dinner with POT last night lasted five HOURS, and it was a delight 🥴 I’m definitely doing this wrong... LMAO. People on Sugar Lifestyle Forum say they meet for 15 mins max. Oops.

This guy, I assumed he was a lawyer cos his profile said he completed an elite law program, but he said he never practiced law. He’s a wildly prolific serial entrepreneur.

He told me when he was my age, he borrowed a loan for ~$40mil and bought a ton of fast food chains. Since then, he’s bought mortgage companies, etc. and sold them all. Now he only operates “sweets” shops.

So he sounds like a perfect SD who wouldn’t be salty, right? Get it... Sweets...

Tell me why I’m dropping hints that I don’t have a car and my new job is an hour away from home. This mfer really offers to DRIVE ME HOME EVERY DAY. YOU’RE INSANE SIR.

He also kept talking about “when we fall in love...” etc.

He’s soooooo nice. I can’t decide which route to take: Should I ask for allowance, a car (or downpayment), or possibly keep him as a gift SD (cos before the dinner he kept asking me my sizes and favorite flowers, colors, etc) then maybe once the relationship matures I ask for a ~$40mil loan. Just kidding. Gift SD wouldn’t help me pay for Ubers to work.

Any SBs have advice?

[brownluxour]

going on a brunch date soon, gonna go to santa monica & walk around the promenade (ugh, if he wasn’t a tourist i would never go there) and hopefully some shopping after.

[techsugar]

Sometimes I wonder if the “time” investment for sugaring has a good ROI ... LMFAOOO. As in, if I spend x hours searching for a SD, which is not guaranteed, I make x amount. Whereas, I take another job, etc. and guaranteed to make y amount.

I’m all about efficiency, meeting my goals and being realistic. I wonder if this is an avenue that will meet my goals?

It’s emotionally fatiguing, frustrating and demoralizing. I recently bought a used car and can’t help but liken the men on Seeking to used car salesmen.

[viennese-ho]

vanilla pot?

I’m giving tinder a try atm, had a date with a 59yo italian yesterday. he has three daughters, all older than me and he seemingly has all the values we’re looking for. a man has to be a provider, he needs to court his lady and take care of her and a woman should be soft, she should let the man be the leader and she has every right to be pampered. sounds amazing!  ....he is already quite annoying though, writing non stop. he doesn’t really work anymore, so he has the time. I’m very curious about this one and how it will work out

[highglucosenosodium]

Pot update

Okay so it’s been a busy week in the sugar world. 2 pot dates this week and one full getaway.

Pot 1 - Bridge. Connected on SA, a little weird from the start. Didn’t want to come to my city or pay for me to Uber to him. (Bad first signs I know) eventually after I ignored him and said I wasn’t interested he came to me. We went out to an okay steakhouse. Asked if the refills were free on his Diet Coke like what?? Talked about his mother the WHOLE time. Literally the entire time. He even called her saying he was on a date. Like no. Either way, he offers me $1000 a month seeing me a couple times a week. When I said no that I don’t have the time for that (also $1000 for a couple times a WEEK) no. He started CRYING actually crying. It was so awkward and uncomfortable. It was a meet and greet but the guy is smitten with me, basically said that he would go into debt for my attention. He asked me out again for next week. He’s harmless but overwhelming.

Pot 2- Dr. Simple. He looks like an Indian version of Danny Devito (no joke). We’ve been talking for a couple weeks and FaceTiming ALL THE TIME. I’ve got to get better at saying no to that. But he asked me to his city. He likes to act like he isn’t wealthy which is almost a nice change of pace, he isn’t showy or bragging. Spend a nice weekend together luxury hotel without it being over the top. Keeps saying he’s a simple man, a poor man. You’re a specialist OBGYN- you’re not fouling anyone. He’s definitely more of a spoiled girlfriend type, wants to feel special and desired. We ended up in bed together and oh boy what an experience. For an gynaecologist he couldn’t find his way around a vagina to save his life. At one point I’m pretty sure he bit me. 🙄 whatever. We’re planning a 3 day weekend to Barbados in two weeks anyways so hopefully we can make it "all about him".

[sweetpea623]

POT ubered me an hour away to his location and I had a date last night too so it’s been exhausting but tonigt went well! Most of the money in the shot covered the Uber but he rounded up to what it would be so I can pocket 50$ of it. I had at eaten a meal since 11 so I told him I was starving @8 so he offered to order me another entree to take. Which is always nice but I didn’t need it. But anyway just an update, definitely glad I went!