Aug 24, 2020
"Because you're childish, you still hold onto resentment towards your parents for what they did to you. So take a look at what they did wrong and then make a vow to do the opposite to your children . .
. . for example: if your parents were overbearing and restrictive -- you can vow to never place restrictions on your child, so that they can always be 'free'.
You'll have no idea that you're putting a terrible burden on them by not enforcing boundaries, and instead of being guided by your heart to find the balance that is right for them -- just mindlessly go to the opposite extreme that your parents went to . .
. . and as your children grow, it'll help them resent you just as much as you resented your parents. Just for different reasons!"