“But the terror consists in our notion of death that it is terrible. When therefore we are hindered, or disturbed, or grieved, let us never attribute it to others, but to ourselves; that is, to our own principles.”
LETTER TO MENOECEUS (EPICURUS)
“The correct understanding that death is no concern of ours allows us to take pleasure in our mortal lives, not because it adds to life an infinite span of time, but because it relieves us of the longing for immortality as a refuge from the fear of death.”
Epictetus talks about how men are always disturbed by the idea of death as they are afraid and people may tend to place the blame onto others instead of themselves. This is interesting as we are supposed to reflect upon ourselves should we die (especially from diseases or accidents) and this is something that is not seen prominently in today's society as many people tend to put the blame on almost every factors that causes death but not ourselves and our own decisions, for example, if we die from car accidents, many people tend to place the blame on the driver that knocked the victim down but seldom on how the victim may have attempted to cross the road dangerously without regards of the traffic.
On the other hand, Epicurus' idea on how we should think about how death is not something that actually concerns us at the present, so fear is very unnecessary and only causes undue distress. This is a very interesting idea as it makes a lot of sense to think about how death does actually not concern us at the present and as Epicurus mentioned, "so long as we exist death is not present with us, and when death comes, then we no longer exist", so most people's fear of death is actually very unnecessary!
This also shows Epicurus’ ideologies where it shows his views on the idea of body and soul and the philosophical idea of existence, in comparison to Epictetus where he does not mention that much about these ideas and showing his position on these matters. Furthermore, Epictetus’ idea on death is more specific and not as abstract while Epicurus’ idea on death is rather abstract and harder to understand.