when i was going through a crisis of “my identity will never make sense, i will constantly have to correct people, and i will never not look female” the one thing i needed was a guide to presenting subtly nonbinary/androgynous/genderless. so here is that guide!
-lots. of. hoodies.
-flannels, which you can find in literally any section! men, women, children, babies. everyone gets flannels!
-no makeup
-for afab folks, cut ur hair! if ur parents dont want u gettin it all short, get it to ur neck/shoulders
-CLOTHES WITH NB COLORS. god i tye-dyed a shirt with yellow, black and purple and it was soooo nice to wear on super androgynous days
-amab= feminine clothes, afab= masculine clothes! pushing away from your assigned gender is just as important as pulling towards androgynous!
-oversized band/fandom shirts! not only super gender-neutral, also a good icebreaker. “you like stranger things, too? are you excited for season 3?”
i rlly hope this helps you!