I have always had issues with my body, I have never really been thin when I have been a teen/adult. I have always been Full figured/ or overweight is what the doctors would say. I hate overweight and fat and most of all obese. Those words are just hurtful. Yes us plus size girls or full figured we know we are big, we don't always need it pointed out to us in such cruel ways (that's just wrong). We all deserved to be treated right and loved for who we are, not what we look like. I know the world is run by sex appeal, but don't you think any size, shape, color, race, body type, sexual orientation should be treated the same with respect and love. I hate hate in general. Life is hard in general with everything going on war, gas prices going up, living cost going up, groceries, child care, bills, car payments, ect. Being an adult is hard and sucks at times. Growing up us children when we were children thought grown up life would be so much better, that we would have such a great life being able to do what we want. Spend money how we chose to spend money and just be able to stay up all night. Then we wake up and realize being a child is so much better, less stress not having to work everyday. We didn't have to deal with the very real adult problems of the world that our parents had to deal with that we now face being adults ourselves having families of our own or just being responsible for putting a roof over our own heads and all the stuff we need. What I wouldn't give to have it easier but I know that isn't gonna happen for a while yet. I'm sure others understand trying to balance and pay everything and not having enough for everything or falling behind. Life is hard but rewarding watching ourselves being able to at least figure shit out and hopefully do right by ourselves and our children and ect. Life is what we make it and I say we bake in the accomplishments we do complete and love ourselves as much as our family and loved ones do. We only get one life so we need to make the best of it and just live everyday like its our last. LOVE is LOVE and no one should feel bad about who they love or anything that involves love and who they are on the inside and outside.
