im gonna put an excerpt from the post so you guys dont have to go read the whole thing yourself
"My opinions on transharmful I’m not against transharmful people, glad to see you all found an online community who you can relate to. You (of course) are all are still welcome to be a part of transid. Transharmful people finding community seem to helped relieve some shame of having intrusive thoughts. But choosing to make such a thought a part of your core of who you are could prevent you from healing from the trauma by cementing such thoughts. I encourage you all to get help with such thoughts. I believe with letting such thoughts pass could allow getting better."
this is harmful to us. You automatically assuming our transharmful identities are intrusive or unwanted is ignoring the fact that it is an IDENTITY! people CHOOSE to use these labels. sure, some people feel like they are intrusive, but not all.
Also, not all transharmful identities are caused by trauma. some people just use them for fucking fun! like myself, i identify as a transcheater because of something silly and stupid! i used to e-date in a roblox game called gacha online and i would have multiple partners, and that was fun to do, so now i identify as a trans cheater.
Assuming that all transharmful identities hurt the being using it is also, you guessed it, harmful. someone could use them to accept a part of themselves, which is a good thing.
And another thing, you are again, assuming that we are ashamed of who we are. i am very proud of my identity and every experience that shaped it. Saying "I am not against transharmful people" then making us out to be ashamed animals who cant control ourselves is contradictory.
Here are some of the comments to share more people opinons:
apparentlyaperson
"in response to this bit "Transharmful people finding community seem to helped relieve some shame of having intrusive thoughts. But choosing to make such a thought a part of your core of who you are could prevent you from healing from the trauma by cementing such thoughts. I encourage you all to get help with such thoughts. I believe with letting such thoughts pass could allow getting better."
that fundamentally misunderstands my relationship to transHarmful identities.
I spent my ENTIRE LIFE up until my 30s trying to hide away and pretend my negative thoughts didn't exist. it wasn't until I accepted them as normal parts of me and stopped fighting them that they got better and stopped taking up such a large part of my identity.
the assumption that we just need to ignore the negative parts of ourselves to "get better" is so fucking hurtful and toxic positivity"
sparklemanxox
"It sound cool and all but the whole excluding transharm and the whole 'must be xyz' is a bit… unsettling to say the least. A huge part about these identities are to say that you dont need approval from others to be yourself. 4 Denies that. 3 directly excludes identities that would otherwise fit, so is the entire point merely to say we're like transids minus those bad ones?. 2 and 1 are things that can very well be used to exclude others in the community, such as with things like "but you cant transition to that" or "that doesnt affect how youre perceived in society", those are both fairly subjective experiences. Having a label with these necessities may lead to unintentional exclusion rather than solely building a space for "normies". Whilst I beleive its awesome to have a label for more "normie" identities, and dont wsnt to force yall to use transID, it would likely be safer to teach people why transID includes more normie ones!"
For context, the post was mostly coining a prefix, "cherid" here is the coining "criteria"
"Cherid Coin
Cherid: short for cherished identity is a term for those who are switching to a differing identity than how they are societally perceived. It is for those who genuinely identify as such. These individuals may or may not have dysphoria.
To be cherid the identity must meet the following criteria:
Can be transitioned to
Effects how one is societally perceived
Is not based in a desire to harm oneself or others
Must be approved by the cherid committee"
Ok. Now this is way worse than just being anti transharm. Having criteria for an id ignores the fundamental aspect of it being an identity. also, who the fuck is the cherid committee?? Imagine having to have your identity approved by a """"committee""". it takes 1 grudge for this to completely fall apart.
The reason most transid coins have vauge descriptions or include "however the user see fits" or something along those lines is because these identities arent strict boxes. they are to be shaped by whoever uses them.
I used to really like this site but this is genuinely disgusting. You are claiming you arent excluding anyone but you are.
and you know what? to spite you terf, im REcoining cherid.
Cherid (Cherished Identity)
can be 2 things
An identity cherished by the user
An identity used because of someone the user cherishes (like amorid)
CAN BE ANY IDENTITY. NO CRITERIA.
Ok now that transid.org is done for, what site do we use now? should i make my own?
A term+flag for someone who IDs as both as CisGroomer and a TransGroomer; for whatever reason.
There is no wrong way to use this term as a long as your usage falls within the provided definition.
We support and even encourage archival and uploading to wikis, however do please credit us& as NecrophallicLoser and do not reword the definition we& have provided.
As always, if this has already been coined, consider this an alt flag.
I feel really bad for your host body’s twin, their sibling, the same person they shared a womb with, identifying as very hateful things against them. I hope your twin is in a safer place away from you
Coming out hiding only to reply this anon.
Shows you know nothing.
They our found twin. They accept us. We accept them. Though we are transtwin with them so you seeing us as real twin makes euphoric.
We like we opposites in some ways and same in others.
Yes, we a transnazi but we would never hurt twin, or any of twin's people.
Yes, we put trans in () but that's just coz we were also making post for people who call self (cis)nazi of some kind like N.I.N who are in similar situation.
You hateful for assuming worst of people.
If twin want be away from us, they can.
We will accept if they can't accept we different from them.
We would miss, we be sad, but we not force to stay.
They can walk if they want. We not want them to but we not force.
Have fun life anon! Learn love whimsy and crazy!
We go back to grieving and yard work now. Thanks all!
ai had mwy entire in system conabuse ritual sacrifice written down , the entire process took three straight days and ai documented all of it , and ai think ai fucking lost the whole fucking thing please no dude
ai am genuinely going to have a depressive episode if that shit is lost what
