#psych discourse

[jasonmantzoukas]

👀if you’re up to it could you elaborate on your anti shules feelings? I’m assuming it’s the years of lying lol

i debated answering this directly mainly because i feel really bad if this ends up in the searches i don't wanna seem mean but i just wanna say in advance if it does: i’m sorry! i have no feelings of personal malice or anything against anyone who ships them! here goes:

i used to really like shules! i thought they had great chemistry and potential! but then season 7 happened... and i just... couldn’t anymore. the fact her main hang-up is liars and frauds and shawn knew that and still chose to date her for 2 years and move in with her without telling her is so shitty and cowardly and selfish. then after she found out (fantastic scene btw mwah i love it) shawn never really apologized or did anything to try and make amends besides just being a dick and almost acting like he had done nothing wrong and she should get over it? and then she just? forgave him? off-screen? with no explanation? how could she be okay with that? it’s so hard for me to wrap my head around and goes against a foundational part of her character.

my second issue is that i really don’t think shawn has the emotional bandwidth to handle a relationship in addition to his relationship with gus. shawn makes it clear that he cares more about gus than jules and goes behind her back to spend time with gus instead of her on numerous occasions which is weird. i think his relationship with gus is way too codependent and time-consuming for a full, multifaceted, mature relationship with anyone else, jules or otherwise.

i also hate that they just randomly got married at the end of the first movie but i have so many issues with that movie so i’m just gonna ignore that!

now that i have said my piece, i will cite some shules scenes that i love because i’m not petty and i can appreciate them:

very close talking

i’ve been thinking about getting a car (this is peak classic shawn spencer bullshit that i love)

i think you’re swell

they’re mostly grey and they’re money

the proposal

[radfem-gossip-reborn]

Kinda wished their was an ed radfem group now that I know I'm not the only one. Obviously not to promote it but to be able to openly discuss it.

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[fiction-and-reality-are-complex]

Gods yeah that makes me so frustrated. Especially when the company I'm at has empathy as part of it's slogan it's like.

Not everyone has empathy and having or not having empathy is not what makes you a good person. Sympathy and compassion are so important and empathy is not the MOST important way nor the ONLY way to care about other people.

Again, has someone who has hyper empathy, sometimes I wish it wasn't a thing.

[radfem-gossip-reborn]

Some of you shitheads in radfem tumblr fucking kill me bc in one breath you’ll be like “let women exist in their natural state! Fuck dieting fuck expectations of how a woman’s body should be fuck etc. etc.” but then you turn around and make fun of fat women. Like... I have PCOS you assholes, being skinny doesn’t come easy or really naturally for me and the only time I was ever “skinny” was from EDs and extreme dieting. Fuck you hypocritical losers.

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[radfem-gossip-reborn]

im autistic and [1/65]

You got us with this one, we were temporarily frightened.

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[radfem-gossip-reborn]

(1/2)I am really, really not a fan of self dx but i feel like some gendercrits and radfems use it's frequency on this site as an excuse to assume everyone is self rx so they can mock them. Sharts comment abt "actual autistics, not kool aid haired community college students fidgeting w expensive toys" annoyed the shit out of me bc those traits have nothing to do with whether theyre #validue. As someome was diagnosed with autism, i feel so fucking bad for legitamately autistic genderists you mfers

“(2/2) come across bc i know youre going to use their disability as fodder against them. I know one of the sharts mods are autistic. Im autistic too. It still shows that gender crits + radfems only care abt hostility towards autistic ppl until its a blue haired genderist they cant relate to who dares to bring a tangle to class. It scares the shit out of me bc those of us who've actually been diagnosed could be accused of faking it if we get too cringey + once that happens, all bullying is excused”

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[radfem-gossip-reborn]

Rudefem cluster B headcanon: shartsandthe-egirl: NPD, mirandatransphobe: BPD, cisoid: HPD, twamsmahogany: ASPD

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[radfem-gossip-reborn]

I've been thinking about self-harming again, not for any particular reason I'm just sad and self-hateful lol, have you ladies dealt with this sort of thing

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