#pterospeaks

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got a surprise chappell-themed birthday cake this weekend, i did start crying

[pterosounds]

i love being a killjoy about outdoor cats and videos of wild animals that should not be inside someone's home. i don't give a shit. put that thing back where it came from

[pterosounds]

every day i am grateful for the simple blessing that is nipples visible through a tanktop. thank you women.

[pterosounds]

really fucked up that the way out is through and that also communicating your wants and needs and feelings is how you get the people in your life to acknowledge and help with them. well and truly sick and twisted

[pterosounds]

oh no children by the mountain goats we're really in it now

[pterosounds]

hey my wife has been unemployed for 3 months after being fired during a medical emergency, and we need like 300 bucks to meet may rent. pp is scarletth, and vm and cash are both scarletto.

anything would help at the moment, even reblogs to spread the word

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i love transfeminism i love the thought and ideology and analysis trans women bring to feminist theory thank you trans women

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will not co-opt a trans woman's post for cis whining, but wrt my last reblog it really is just like. this weird gender space isn't it? to be a gender-non-conforming woman who is solidly a woman and chooses actively to be a woman. and in that way i relate so much to even non-butch transfems because literally even by well-meaning lgbt people, i get lumped in with manhood so often just because of my masculinity. and then barred or alienated from "inherently womanly" things because of this perceived proximity to manhood. despite still either needing to participate in them (public bathrooms, period discussions) or wanting to engage with them ("feminine" hobbies or interests, discussions about feminism).

i have additional personal gender shit too that when i try to discuss it with people, even trans people, they start telling me that probably means i am not a woman or not cis and i get so frustrated. and it's so alienating. because no. i am not a man, i am not transmasc, i have no feelings about my gender identity that aren't "i am 100% confident that i am a woman". i just have feelings about what being a "woman" actually is.