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Blondes #nickthedog #puffthebeardeddragon (at Studio City, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/BwH3Q60BSLk/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1nlsw5kmdjwpx

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Lizard is a Boss #puffthebeardeddragon (at Studio City, California) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bvm52Ujh-5Q/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=qbd1v5qfky57

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So sometimes sexualities and identites confuse me. How can a lesbian identify as he/him? Doesn't that contradict the definition of "lesbian?" Not tryna come off like a jerk, I'm just genuinely confused?

mm so i identify as a they/them lesbian so please understand this is a subject best explained by actual he/him lesbians, but i'll still do my best!

essentially what it boils down to is rather than pronouns being equivalent to gender, they're a part of gender expression. so he/him lesbians aren't men, they're gnc women

a lot of lesbians, myself included, have a v complicated relationship when it comes to gender bc society expects a lot of things from women and, surprise, lesbians subvert a lot of that. for me, using they/them pronouns helps alleviate some of my dysphoria especially in a social sense bc i don't have that full inner connection to womenhood, and so being referred to as a "woman" is uncomfortable for me, to say the least. that's the simplest way i can put it when it comes to my own experience w The Lesbian Experience™

and from what i've read/heard, he/him lesbians experience this same thing, though sometimes in a more extreme sense. it's most often (but not always) butches that will use he/him pronouns bc it helps alleviate any gender dysphoria they may have, as well as help express their masculine presentation.

if this doesn't make sense, or you want a more in-depth explanation, let me know! i get that it's kinda confusing, it was to me at first, but it's something important to understand imo

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These two. #lennysalamander #puffthebeardeddragon #gladiators (at Laurel Canyon, Los Angeles) https://www.instagram.com/p/BmOcc-dhZxq/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=w07p6rw9cfsf

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Catchin’ some 🌞🌞🌞#nickthedog #puffthebeardeddragon #lennysalamander (at Laurel Canyon, Los Angeles)

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puffthebeardeddragon said: Why are you tasting your clipboard first of all

to claim it as my own. why aren't you licking your own personal items? hmm??