I've labeled myself as demiromantic as I realised that I rarely feel romantic attraction but I have felt it a couple times towards close friends. However I've realized that besides that, I could be Alterous because sometimes it's never clear how the attraction is? it's just wanting the emotional aspect of it... I'm so unsure now because it's like sometimes I experience emotions as demiromantic but with other people it's alterous. is it possible to identify as both or would that be more aroflux?
‘alterous’ isnt an orientation or identifier as much as ‘romantic’ or ‘sexual’ is, it’s a type of attraction
if you feel like you can’t quite tell what type of attraction you’re feeling, perhaps look into quoiromantic?
Quoiromanticdescribes someone whose experiences and attractions cannot be distinguished into romantic or platonic
it’s possible to be both. aroflux would only be if you feel like you fluctuate between then, and dont id as both at the same time