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Choose your relationships wisely. – The best relationships are not just about the good times you share, they’re also about the obstacles you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end. And loving someone isn’t just about saying it every day, it’s showing it every day in every way. Relationships must be chosen wisely. Don’t rush love. Wait until you truly find it. Don’t let loneliness drive you back into the arms of someone you know you don’t belong with. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely. A great relationship is worth waiting for.

[mstygerlily]

Winning your husband’s heart!

Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a female–a man doesn’t want a man for his wife!

Dress pleasantly/attractiv...ely. If you are a home-maker, don’t stay in your pyjamas suit all day.

Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.

Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother. (Not ALL in laws are bad)

Compliment him on the things you know he’s not so confident about (looks, intelligence, etc.) This will build his self-esteem.

Tell your husband you love him, many, many times. Aisha (رضالله عنها) narrated that the Prophet (صلي الله عليه وسلم) used to ask her how strong her love for him, she said like “a knot.” And the next time he would ask her, “How is that knot?” He also used to reply to her saying, “Jazzakillah, O Aishah, wallahi, you have not rejoiced in me as I have rejoiced in you.”.

Call his family often.

Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he does it. This will encourage him to do more.

Encourage him to do good deeds.

If he’s in a bad mood, give him some space. He’ll get over it, Insha’Allah.

Thank him sincerely for providing you with food and shelter. It’s a big deal.

Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration.

If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it. Really.

Do all of the above fee sabeelillah and you will see Allah put barakah in everything you do.

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[rainniemcbee]

The Teacup

This is an inspirational story. One of my faves. :))

There was a couple who took a trip to England to shop in a beautiful antique store to celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary. They both liked antiques and pottery, and especially teacups. Spotting an exceptional cup, they asked "May we see that? We've never seen a cup quite so beautiful." As the lady handed it to them, suddenly the teacup spoke, "You don't understand. I have not always been a teacup. There was a time when I was just a lump of red clay. My master took me and rolled me pounded and patted me over and over and I yelled out, 'Don't do that. I don't like it! Let me alone.' But he only smiled, and gently said; 'Not yet!'" "Then. WHAM! I was placed on a spinning wheel and suddenly I was spun around and around and around. 'Stop it! I'm getting so dizzy! I'm going to be sick,' I screamed. But the master only nodded and said, quietly; 'Not yet.' "He spun me and poked and prodded and bent me out of shape to suit himself and then… Then he put me in the oven. I never felt such heat. I yelled and knocked and pounded at the door. Help! Get me out of here! I could see him through the opening and I could read his lips as he shook his head from side to side, 'Not yet'." "When I thought I couldn't bear it another minute, the door opened. He carefully took me out and put me on the shelf, and I began to cool. Oh, that felt so good! Ah, this is much better, I thought. But, after I cooled he picked me up and he brushed and painted me all over. The fumes were horrible. I thought I would gag. 'Oh, please; Stop it, Stop it!' I cried. He only shook his head and said. 'Not yet!'." "Then suddenly he put me back in to the oven. Only it was not like the first one. This was twice as hot and I just knew I would suffocate. I begged. I pleaded. I screamed. I cried. I was convinced I would never make it. I was ready to give up. Just then the door opened and he took me out and again placed me on the shelf, where I cooled and waited ------- and waited, wondering "What's he going to do to me next? An hour later he handed me a mirror and said 'Look at yourself.'" "And I did. I said, 'That's not me; that couldn't be me. It's beautiful. I'm beautiful!' Quietly he spoke: 'I want you to remember, then,' he said, 'I know it hurt to be rolled and pounded and patted, but had I just left you alone, you'd have dried up. I know it made you dizzy to spin around on the wheel, but if I had stopped, you would have crumbled. I know it hurt and it was hot and disagreeable in the oven, but if I hadn't put you there, you would have cracked. I know the fumes were bad when I brushed and painted you all over, but if I hadn't done that, you never would have hardened. You would not have had any color in your life. If I hadn't put you back in that second oven, you wouldn't have survived for long because the hardness would not have held. Now you are a finished product. Now you are what I had in mind when I first began with you." The moral of this story is this: Allah knows what He's doing for each of us. He is the potter, and we are His clay. He will mold us and make us, and expose us to just enough pressures of just the right kinds that we may be made into a flawless piece of work to fulfill His good, pleasing and perfect will. So when life seems hard, and you are being pounded and patted and pushed almost beyond endurance; when your world seems to be spinning out of control; when you feel like you are in a fiery furnace of trials; when life seems to "stink", try this.... Brew a cup of your favorite tea in your prettiest teacup, sit down and think on this story and then, have a little talk with the Potter.

[rainniemcbee]

By AbuHafsah AbdulMalik Clare

A male from a wealthy country goes to a poorer country in search of a wife. He brings promises of wealth and status to the family of the Sister. They get married and the male enjoys himself for as long as he is in that country. He makes more promises and they have a tearful goodbye in the airport. The male returns home and 1 week goes by. The sister t

ries to call the number he gave her and he makes an excuse that he's busy and hangs up. A month goes by and still very little or no contact. After a few months, this dog tells her by sms that the distance between them is to far and the marriage isn't going to work out.

Have you heard this story before? Perhaps you or one of your friends has had this experience? Be very careful when you agree to marry someone especially if they are from abroad. I don't care if he is a scholar or a lecturer, he needs to be properly investigated before you agree to marry him. Don't be infatuated with the wealth or status of another country either. It's better for you to marry an honest brother who works hard than it is for you to marry a dog from abroad who will just enjoy himself and be on his way. I'm not saying not to marry someone unless he is from your country. What I'm saying is, investigate. If he is honest, he won't mind being investigated, in fact he will welcome it, and don't fall in love with promises. May ALLAH protect us all, ameen. And may ALLAH give these male devils exactly what they deserve, ameen.