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It’s been a long time but I still see you everyday. Sometimes I miss you but I always remind myself of all that you did. It was simply unforgiven.
I used to love you a lot but now I hate you as much.
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Resilience
It happens to the best of us... no matter how adept we get at handling difficulties, solving problems, trying to stay optimistic, there will be times when the once brightly-lit road ahead of us becomes foggy and we lose our orientation and focus. That's why developing our resilience is key to helping us weather life'ssometimes freaky storms. When it comes to resilience, there are two main dimensions, first, our mental resilience - these are our thought patterns, how we make sense of a situation, how we rationalise things to ourselves, how we reconcile or sever ourselves from certain ideas, people or things. This in turn affects our emotional resilience - that is, our feelings, which then go on to influence what we do or don't do about something. To assess how resilient you are, think about how you regulate your emotions, as in how stable are your feelings, to what extent can you delay gratification, and how well or how badly do you handle problems and challenges? For instance, when you're late for an important meeting, someone criticises you harshly, your partner leaves you or you don't get that job. How do you explain it to yourself? Do you blame bad luck? Blame yourself? Blame others? What is the outcome of these thoughts? Do you come out more energised or feeling more helpless and doubtful? We develop patterns of thinking that can become a debilitating or empowering habit. If your thought patterns are consistently bringing you down, perhaps it's time to change them.
Winning your husband’s heart!
Behave like a female, i.e. all the tenderness of a female–a man doesn’t want a man for his wife!
Dress pleasantly/attractiv...ely. If you are a home-maker, don’t stay in your pyjamas suit all day.
Don’t lay out all your problems on your husband as soon as he walks in. Give him a little mental break.
Be kind to your mother-in-law the same way you would like your husband to be kind to your own mother. (Not ALL in laws are bad)
Compliment him on the things you know he’s not so confident about (looks, intelligence, etc.) This will build his self-esteem.
Tell your husband you love him, many, many times. Aisha (رضالله عنها) narrated that the Prophet (صلي الله عليه وسلم) used to ask her how strong her love for him, she said like “a knot.” And the next time he would ask her, “How is that knot?” He also used to reply to her saying, “Jazzakillah, O Aishah, wallahi, you have not rejoiced in me as I have rejoiced in you.”.
Call his family often.
Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he does it. This will encourage him to do more.
Encourage him to do good deeds.
If he’s in a bad mood, give him some space. He’ll get over it, Insha’Allah.
Thank him sincerely for providing you with food and shelter. It’s a big deal.
Remember that your husband has feelings, so take them into consideration.
If your husband is annoyed over a little thing you do (and you can control it), then stop doing it. Really.
Do all of the above fee sabeelillah and you will see Allah put barakah in everything you do.
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Muslim's Prayer Rooms Around Singapore - From FB
Assalamualaikum to all in reading.
JazakAllah Khayran. 01) Suntec City/ Millenia Walk Basement: Basement 1 carpark. Take lift from main lobby to B1 and turn right. Enter exit door (To carpark B1) and turn right towards carpark. Turn left and there is a small prayer place located at the extreme end. Ablution place outside the room.
02) Marina Square - Republic Ave - Carpark Basement 1 (Small partition room - Ablution can be taken at level 1 toilet)
03) Royal Plaza - Scotts Road - (An air-conditioned room w ablution facilities)
04) Furama Hotel(River Front) - Havelock Road - Level 3 (Beside Kintamani Indonesian Restaurant)
05) Tampines Mall - Tampines Central - Level 2 (Near the toilet & Loading & Unloading Lift.)
06) IKEA (Queenstown) - Basement carpark (Male at the corner back on the left from the pick up point while Female just in front at the pick-up point) Door in grey and indicates surau.
07) Serangoon Junior College - 3rd level staircase landing, behind one of the older Lecture Theaters. Ablution facilities, level 1 toilet beside the bookshop, use the fire hosereel.
08) Temasek Polytechnic - Level 3 handicap toilet landing, near the one stop service centre. A lift landing with ablution facilities (handicap toilet).
09) Police Cantonment Complex ('A' Division) - Level 4, further down after the Officers' rest room. Located at the far end beside the old crime report rooms.
10) SGH Mosque - The large surau beside the Duke NUS Graduate Medical School. It is somehow labelled as a surau although it is large enough to be a mosque and Friday prayers are conducted there as well.
11) SIM Singapore Institute of Management. - In a corner stairwell on the right 1st floor when you enter SIM. No room, its under the stairs.
12) IKEA Tampines - Level 2 - Beside the food court. Ablution available on both male & female rooms.
13) Queensway Shopping Centre - 2nd floor near the toilet. Access through the Exit door. There are taps inside for ablution.
14) NUH - Level 6
15) CDC Driving Centre - Next to the motorcycle briefing/reporting counter.
16) Universal Studios S'pore - Building just after the entrance to the left of the main street. Look for door marked Baby Care Room. Staff manning that section will point you to the prayer rm. Ablution facilities are quite a distance tho, look for nearest toilets. Prayer mats are provided and there's even a kiblat sign pasted on the ceiling to point u to the right direction.
17) Peninsula Plaza - Staircase that leads to the building carpark at basement. Toilet for ablution is a few feet away only..
18) Thomson Medical Centre - level 6 - has a room of its own, ablution at nearby toilet.
19) Wisma Atria - 7th Floor car park (staircase landing). Take Cargo Lift to 7th Floor. Out of lift take a LEFT and go to the cooling tower. Take the pathway around the tower and it will lead to the staircase landing. Sejadah, telekong, kain and songkok are available. Ablution: use the tap there.
20) Universal Studio Singapore - (Prayer room just beside Battlestar Galactica. Ablution: use the tap there.
21) Sentosa, beach Station - Basement 1, Beach Station Carpark. There are directional sign to the musollah. Ablution can be taken at a nearby water point just to the right of the musollah.
22) KK Women's and Children's Hospital - Basement 1 Women's Wing. Staircase landing (behind Exit door) just left of the 24-hour Clinic. Slippers, mats and telekong available. Ablution at B1 male/female toilets nearby.
23) Raffles City Shopping Centre - Its located at a shop name Quest Salon @ #02-27 find for DBS Bank branch @ level 2 and walk all the way in. The room entrance has a picture of a person in sitting in between sujud position. It has both muslimin and muslimah mushollah and ablution can be taken at the nearest toilet. The room can fit up to 3 pax but there's only 2 sejadah. Slippers are provided inside a white cabinet near the muslimin room.
ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?" The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author. Here's the answer. Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU. Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown. The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found. People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this): The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable. Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling. Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ♥
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Have not been updating my site for the longest time.
However, when I checked my visitors' list recently - I suddenly received some ATTENTION.
Hmmm...
As long as NO ONE is up to NO GOOD, then its fine by me.
But then if someone is -
YOU ARE TOO FREE,
huh?
God's creation - LAUGH
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ada-ada aje...
over dinner last evening... we had assam rebus with cabbage, long beans and corn and telur dadar...
he said: "I don't want to eat the green vegetables. Because when T1 and T2 sees me, they'll think that I am in their team."
They will say - "Ilyasa' is one of us! He is T3!!!"
ada-ada aje anak aku nie.... *we named the terrapins T1 and T2 just like Banana in Pyjamas cos we are unsure of their gender...
~ NO NEWS is GOOD NEWS (i hope) ~
ya i know, its been a LONG time that I updated something. I had been lazy. tak kuasa... anyways, there are no updates from my last entry. the police case thingy. i simply don't bother to follow up. i am just hoping that NO NEWS is GOOD NEWS. ...i don't want to boast, lepas cakap or even cakap abis... ..but.. after that incident, many things happened to his family.
His sister was featured in an article on Breast Cancer Awareness in Berita Minggu. I was shocked to know that his eldest sis who is only 44 had breast cancer.
Then, I heard from my son that his stepmum's father is in a critical condition but I don't know what happened. He has since passed away last week. That too was in the papers.
And latest, my son told me last evening that his paternal grandmother is hospitalised. He said, "Nenek is confused because Mak busu getting married." (He meant stress.) Whatever!
The thing is, he and his family is going thru various musibah. Why can't they just leave me and my son alone? Why have to make us go thru hell as well?
one Monday Morning...131008
The Tyger... **His eyes closed.** "Can you scratch my back?" The Ibu... **Rub. Rub.** "Higher a bit." So the Ibu... **Adjusts. Rub. Rub.** "Lower a bit." And the Ibu... **Adjusts again. Rub. Rub.** "Use your sharp nail." Already late for work Ibu... **?!?!?!?! ** (Dun want to injure him maa...) (Sleeping can still instruct arh?)
Please Doa for Us. Thanks!
Lebaran is just a day away. And I am faced with yet another challenge.
On Sunday, my ex has lodged a police report claiming that I had abused my son.
This afternoon, I will need to provide my statement at Bedok Police HQ. Hari Raya or not. I will get this matter over and done with. No point delaying.
One thing I am certain. He is doing this to destroy the only happiness that I have.
ILYASA'.
He knows by gaining the full custody of Ilyasa', he has achieved to destroy me. He has always be authoritative and will continue doing so to get what he wants. The divorce may be long over but this has been his wish.
To break me.
Please doa that everything will go on well for Ilyasa' & me.
Terrible F1 accident - gory! Oh MY GAWD!!
Really sad! just happened during the F1 test run! Singapore is condemned!!!