Meaningful Relationships
I have learned somethingâthe human heart is designed to know and to be known. The human heart longs for relationshipâdeep, meaningful, satisfying relationship. In order to achieve this type of relationship, two things are key: (1) Time and (2) Empathy.Â
(1) Time. Relationships cannot be microwaved. We cannot just show up, press a few buttons, andâvoilĂĄâexpect a meaningful relationship. Of course, just spending a lot of time together doesnât mean a relationship will be successful either. However, the greater the quantity of time that is spent means a greater likelihood of quality time.
(2) Empathy. The Bible says, âRejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mournâ (Romans 12:15). It doesnât say, âIf people are low, bring them up; if they are too high, bring them down to realistic levels.â Empathy is all about letting the other person drive the agendaâto match whatever they are feeling. A Swedish Proverb says, âA shared joy is a double joy, and a shared sorrow is half a sorrow.â
Hereâs a good pattern to followâ
Right Time + Right Thing = Meaningful Relationships
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Quality Time + Empathy Time = Satisfying Relationships












