queer (adjective)
not fitting traditional ideas about gender or sexuality, especially the idea that everyone is either male or female or that people should only have sexual relationships with the opposite sex:
He says they use the word "queer" to include anyone who wants to be included (gay, bi, trans, whatever).
They strongly identify with queer culture.
More examples
Growing up, I knew in my heart I was queer.
I find myself infuriated by this attitude of shame and guilt, as do many other queer men I’m sure.
Derek Jarman was an English pioneer in queer cinema.
Activists proudly claimed their queer identity.
The queer community is inclusive and incorporates all these identities.
from the Cambridge English Dictionary article on queer












