Hi, I am curious so I decided to try this out.
I am soon to be 38 in a couple months, short (like 5'3) and although im overweight, I do weight training for my job, so guess my figure is what people call strong fat?
I am more to myself personally and don't like being around other people's drama and gossip. I do not drink, haven't smoked tobacco or cannabis in more than 10 years, but the cravings creep back when i'm stuck in a social situation I clearly do want to engage in. I like having my day run smoothly, it set up the next day the week before, I have plans a-z for every situation, and despite being and introvert, I am passionate almost falling over myself to make a partner happy, they will be my entire world.
I have Binge Eating Disorder since I was around 7 or 8, so I am told im very ocd with my food, macros, nutrition, and workout, but they never gained and lost as much fat and weight as I have while managing my diabetes.
Im more of a homebody. I am the early to rise early to bed kind of lady. Tend to hoard books like a dragon hoards gold, and not a fan of streaming. I still have physical media from when I was a tween and just watch at night or listen to the radio or CDs while I'm in my workshop.
Hobbies: vintage machine/appliance furniture restoration, paint, I did play music and used to sing, but I was made to quit by my dad in my teens. Im decent at cooking, mostly the kind of food that will make you cry or a smile if you're having a bad day kind of comfort food.
Lothes entirety: being lied to/gaslit (deal breaker in a relationship with me), being pranked (especially if it involves the foods I eat or medication), bullies in general. If someone is getting nasty, throwing my mental health issues and trauma back in my face they need to either prepare to get hit, or I talk back with the worst possible things to say to them. I keep receipts of secrets, don't make me use them out of anger.
Basically I am the most chill introvert out there til my boundaries get pushed a bit too far. I'm the kind of petty that Charlotte Dobre reads about on her channel.
I am going to pair you with …
𝐊𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐫 【Ｔ𝐡𝐞 𝐐𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐏𝐞𝐜𝐓】
You don’t do nonsense.
No drama. No games. No lies. You’ve worked too hard on yourself, your routines, your health, your boundaries, to let anyone come in and disrupt that.
Killer understands that immediately.
Not just the boundaries.
But the discipline behind them.
You would meet in a space where things are structured. Work, routine, something where precision matters. And instead of clashing with your need for order, he matches it effortlessly.
“You’re consistent.”
Simple.
But it means more than praise.
Your dynamic is built on mutual respect and structure.
You plan ahead.
You think things through.
You prepare for every outcome.
He doesn’t find that excessive.
He finds it smart.
Your routines, your focus on food, health, managing your body and your condition…
He respects that deeply.
There’s no judgment.
No teasing.
No pushing your boundaries “for fun.”
“You know what you’re doing.”
And he trusts that.
Your hatred of lies and manipulation is something he shares.
You don’t tolerate it.
Neither does he.
If someone crosses that line with you?
He doesn’t escalate unnecessarily.
But he will step in.
Quietly.
Decisively.
No second chances.
Your introverted, homebody nature fits perfectly with him.
You don’t need constant socializing.
You don’t need noise.
You’re comfortable in your space.
And he is too.
Evenings are calm.
You working on something in your workshop. Him nearby, silent but present. Music playing softly in the background.
No pressure to talk.
Just… being.
Your passion for making others happy, especially a partner, is something he notices quickly.
You give a lot.
Care, effort, attention.
He doesn’t take that lightly.
He matches it.
In his own quieter way.
Fixing things for you. Helping without being asked. Making sure your space stays stable and safe.
Your temper, the line you don’t let people cross, is something he respects.
You are calm.
Until you’re not.
And when that boundary is crossed?
You mean it.
He doesn’t try to soften that part of you.
He supports it.
“They had it coming.”
Flat.
Honest.
Your hobbies, restoration, crafting, working with your hands, cooking comfort food…
Those become shared, grounded moments.
He appreciates skill.
Precision.
And there’s something deeply satisfying about watching you work.
Your relationship is quiet, stable, and built on trust.
You bring strength, discipline, and a fiercely loyal heart.
He brings consistency, protection, and someone who respects every boundary you’ve fought to build.
And with him…
You don’t have to defend yourself constantly.
Because for once…
Someone stands on the same side as you.
