I used to proudly announce that "Sarcasm is my first language!" Sarcasm (or "snark") can feel like a powerful coping mechanism. The truth is, though, sarcasm is often very damaging, and when people routinely reach for a sarcastic comment, the quality of the conversation tends to decrease markedly. Sarcasm is also frequently used as a power play, to deflect attention away from what the other person is trying to say and bring the spotlight to the person making the snarky comment. Rarely does it add to the dialogue, though. Next time you're tempted to lash out with a sarcastic reply, consider your motivation. Are you trying to be humorous, or are you trying to diminish what they're saying? If it's the former, can you comment in a way that's constructive? And if it's the latter... is it really necessary? Just pause, and ask yourself if it's the right thing to do. And if you're stuck and unsure how to change those patterns, let's talk. You might be surprised how much improvement you'll see in your #ResultsAndRelationships. #ChiefHappinessOfficer #HappinessIsCourage #WorkHappyIndiana #RadicallyPositiveResults https://www.instagram.com/p/B7enS9nJ1kQ/?igshid=rqigl0xgu3jj