Just gonna rant. I play and am learning several instruments. 1 of them (piano) I have been playing since I was 9yo. I am in a LOT of forums for musicians - instrument specific or not - and nothing makes me angrier than seeing posts from teens asking if they're too old to start playing an instrument or not sure if they can make a career out of it because they don't enjoy playing for 16 hours every day and if they can't make a career out of it then they've wasted all this time already and need to quit.
To be CLEAR, I am not mad at these kids, but there is clearly a whole-ass society failing them.
You can learn to play an instrument any time! I picked up 3 more this year at 40yo (harmonica, voice, and castenets). I picked up two others at the beginning of lockdown (djembe and tin whistle). Music should be, first and foremost, FUN. And we are SUPPOSED to be having fun in this life, otherwise why bother? Pay bills then die?
There is NO obligation to play an instrument WELL in order to like it. You will not expire at 20. Nor at 30. Not even 40 or 50! Most of our brains like to keep learning things and having new experiences our ENTIRE lives, so you should keep doing that. You CAN join a band, create music, learn instruments, blah blah blah well into your old age.
But goddamn. Kids should be allowed to be kids and they should know that it's okay to do things that aren't your career. Not just okay, but super good for you!
















