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Long Distance Relationships.

Many people says that Long Distance Relationship doesn’t work, or it sucks. That is not the point. I once believed that LDRs don’t work but it’s just the distance that sucks, and not the relationship itself. If you decide to enter a Long Distance Relationship, how will you work it out?

Communication. Never lose any contact with your partner, since you are in an LDR, and that’s the only way that you could talk to your partner everyday. Consider sending random text messages, late night calls, online chatting. If technology didn’t reach your place, then try snail mail. Maybe it’s possible (considering the movie, Dear John). Communicate everyday, more than once if possible. Since you won’t be seeing each other, it’s important to establish and maintain an emotional connection. You can do things together, like eating together while on the phone, or singing yourselves to sleep, etc.

Think on the brighter side. Always think that even though distance sucks, and it sucks since you won’t see each other that often, but after all your sacrifices today, you will feel the happiness you wanted for so long. Most important, being far away from your partner gives you a chance to maintain your individuality, spend more time with your family and friends.

Avoid temptation. This is one thing why LDRs don’t work out; because there are so many temptations around us, and we, as persons, have free will to do so. But as long as you are interested with your relationship, no matter how thousands of people are around to tempt you, you will stick to the one you love, despite the distance between the both of you.

Talk about your future together. It is nice to hear when your love one says, “Let’s get married soon” or “When we see each other, that’ll be the longest hug I could ever encounter” and many more. You should have plans, this will make the relationship stronger since you can motivate yourself to hold on despite the distance, and do the things you want to do with her/him in the future.

Avoid jealousy and be trusting. One of the easiest ways to destroy a perfectly healthy relationship is to poison it with jealousy and drama. When you start a long distance relationship, you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. It always helps if you go in a relationship with the idea that everyone is innocent and worthy of trust until proven otherwise. Don’t fall in the trap of interrogating your partner every time he/she decides to go out for a drink with people you haven’t met or he/she didn’t get back to you right away when you called and left a message. Just because you are in a long-distance relationship doesn’t mean your lives will pause. Your partner will naturally have a social life where he/she lives and so should you. Sure, it helps to have your eyes open and not be totally naive, but being overly suspicious is unhealthy for you and your relationship too. You should both maintain your social activity and be happy with yourselves. Trust your guy/girl and he/she will trust you as well.

Patience. Wait for the right time. Long Distance Relationship is not about those who cannot wait.

Remember that you’re in a relationship. If he/she is in trouble, be there for him/her despite the distance. Comfort your partner in all the ways you can. And, most of all, even though you live individually, act like he/she is still there around you, watching you with all your actions. 

Love. Of course, this wont work without love. Love your partner regardless of the distance, the time, the place. Distance is not the bitch, it is the people around you who’ll make the relationship die.

Remember: Love and relationship doesn’t matter about being together, it is about how you make it feel that you’re together, despite the different factors that could affect your relationship. Everything is worth the try, depending on how you exert your efforts in it.

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Ganito kasi yun. Mahal ka niya, at ayaw nila mawala o maagaw ng iba sakanya. Sobra kang mahalaga sa kanya kaya nilalaan nya ang oras nya kesa mag shopping, makipag bonding sa kaibigan nya at humarot sa paninigurong di ka mapupunta sa iba.

Anung klaseng gf ba gusto mo? Yung hahayaan ka lang uminom, magpakawala, at lumandi sa iba nang wala syang ginagawa? Yung hindi ka nilalambing at itetext ka lang kung kelan ka gusto? Maramdaman mo kayang mahal ka nang taong ganyan?

Pahalagahan natin ang mga babae at intindihin! Hindi rin nila ginusto ang ganito, Mahal lang nila tayo kaya sila ganito.