Redefinition
The thing about perfection is that it is what it is. When something's perfect, it's exactly what you see on the surface and underneath. It leaves no room to wiggle and change and make it your own. It has no dimension or depth or growth. It's exactly like that. In other words, it's boring. Flaws on the other hand, leaves you wanting more-excited even. It gives room for exploration and knowledge and surprise. It's ever changing and adventurous. Except for God, I don't think anyone should have to be "perfect". Simply because it's unfulfilling and yet that's exactly what we all strive to be.
But I don't think anyone can really get there, although they might come close. But the truth is, the people we think are perfect, usually don't think of themselves that way and they think other people are perfect. It's so sad, it's almost funny. Now I'm just rambling here and these are just my muses. but I wonder what people think of me. I can honestly say that I don't really care that much, as a human being and a girl-maybe I care to a certain extent (who doesn't?), I'm just honestly curious. Sometimes I feel bad for really pretty girls. Because they become this girl on the pedestal with boys.
They become an idea, an object or a target. Instead of being seen a human, someone with fears and hopes and awkwardness and embarrassing moments that are altogether beautiful. Soon enough, they might feel exactly how people see them, a perfect package without complexity. But then, not all pretty girls are like that. And I think every girl is beautiful in their own special, unconventional and adorable way. I also think that nobody was created to be alone in this world.
I believe we were all made in a design that compliments that one person you will be with until you die. Now whether that be a your soul mate, or the friend who is probably better than any person you've ever had a crush on, or simply the family you never got to choose and aren't always the best but still unconditionally love, we were never brought into this world to be alone. I think the dictionary is only here because we need to have something official or else people wouldn't stop arguing about what something means oh and it comes in handy to know what some words actually mean.
But in some ways, I think we all re define what things mean to us. Not really intentionally. Maybe they're just opinions forming in our heads. then again, maybe it's just me.