#redmlm

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Father hal bwease gimme a kin

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redmlm replied to your post “Hey whatever happened to you i'm sorry and i know this isnt my...”

Fuck i have gone through this too. Its pretty much the same situation. I'm sorry for you but you never did anything wrong, believe that. You are one of my fave mutuals and I hope you stay happy and safe!

oh my goodness, thank you! i'm so sorry that you've gone through this same situation, it's not fair to either of us. i'm so proud of you for surviving, and you deserve to be proud of yourself too. god, it means the world to me. you're one of my fav mutuals as well! /) v (\ thank you for the kind wishes... i really hope that you have so much happiness, too. you deserve to be safe, and to heal.

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Hey whatever happened to you i'm sorry and i know this isnt my business but i hope you feel better and know that youre great and didnt deserve any of it, whatever it was!!

; _____ ; you’re incredibly kind, oh my god. don’t worry about stepping in, it makes me feel really happy that you did. i do feel a lot better than i did initially! i was made to believe i deserved all of it, but every person i speak to makes it clear to me that i wasn’t being treated right.

they were projecting heavily onto me and broke their numerous promises of not abandoning me (again; they did it two years ago because they thought i was being ‘abusive’ even though they acknowledged that was stupid and that it was tumblr mentality rotting their brain) for unjustifiable reasons. they left me again, blocked me on all programs & social media, and had all of their friends block me just because i was hurt and upset and i expressed that for the first time.

plus, they were really reaching? they claimed that i had stalked them, which wasn’t ever the case. it’s a pattern in victims to seek out their abuser’s social media out of fear that they’re saying bad things about them (which, as it ends up, is exactly what they were doing! after that, i was gone). it proves that they never got over their commitment issues and were ready to flee and betray all the trust i put into them at the first sign of uncertainty with me. (’: