#relational styles

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Styles of Relating

This twenty minute video offers some ideas about styles of relating we turn to, to protect ourselves rather than enter into deep relationship. #StylesofRelating #Genesis3 #ClothedinChrist

Grace and Peace Joanne YouTube Channel Dan Allender, in his book The Wounded Heart talks extensively about “styles of relating” as they pertain to those who have been sexually abused. Since the first edition of his book, the concept of “styles of relating” has been expanded by many others as a way to describe a pattern of behavior that develops as a defensive strategy when a person has been…

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[5o]

some folks’ relational style is 

IM ALWAYS FIGHTING YOU / EVERYTHING AROUND ME

WHY ARE YOU FLEEING THAT

COWARDS

but the world as is is already too tough to make that style of intimacy preferred

‘my love language is stabbing’

the accidental ouches of a day are more than enough

keep the ouch outa my home

i’m impressed by your will to fight everyone

just not endeared 

just spent a week on vacation around the southwestern u.s. stayin with various friends

some of them i didn’t like as much in theory but in practice i did bc they still had some chill

the one’s i like in theory exhausted me to my core with a perpetual buckshot rage aimed at nothing other than the conditions of existence

which i get it but good godt i’m not tryna spend time with it