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Relationship 101: Being tired is not an excuse to be lazy in your relationship. I’ll say it again. Being tired is not an excuse to be LAZY about your relationship. Relationships require EFFORT 7 days a week, Mon-Sun, all year round. If you’re too tired, too lazy, too busy to make an effort with and for your partner..then I suggest you stay single and avoid wasting people’s time.
Thank you for coming to my Ted talk
Relationship 101: Communication is key. Make time to connect deeply with your partner and express your feelings openly. Remember, love grows in an environment of trust and open communication. Make the time to always communicate, connect and bond, openly and equally.
(Create a sense of Unity)
Not mine but basically could be. Thought I would share becuse if you’ve gone through a traumatic heart break it can really fuck you up. And in the most unexpected ways some times. Gotta look for those green flags. And just because someone did something to you doesn’t mean the next person will. I’m so thankful to my patient darling love that has been so understanding and caring and compassionate towards me when something gets triggered and I don’t feel that I can even move. Even with all the hard work I’ve done..there is still a lot of trauma there.. And remember to praise your partner. It’s something we can easily not do enough when life gets busy. Ask for what you want. Not a negative reaction to something they did. Focus on the good. And allow someone the chance to love you the way you deserve to be loved.
Things I have learned by talking to people other then the asshole who says he's awesome; nobody thinks they are as awesome as they say. If you notice that they only talk about themselves others have definitely noticed it too. And it's ok to get these people out of your life.
“There’s a habit of mind that the masters have,” Gottman explained in an interview, “which is this: they are scanning social environment for things they can appreciate and say thank you for. They are building this culture of respect and appreciation very purposefully. Disasters are scanning the social environment for partners’ mistakes.”
This amazing The Atlantic article
--Reminder to be a Master instead of a Disaster
