#reverse soulbonding

[soulbonder]

Hey! I hope all is well!

I’m a reverse Soulbonder, and have been for quite awhile, I have been active in other plural and alter human communities but there aren’t many blogs for Soulbonding much these days. I’m glad to see yours is active again!

If you ever are looking for a co-mod, I’d be down to help keep this place running!

Thank you for the message! Reverse soulbonding is really quite fascinating, we've only done it a few times. In your opinion, how does it compare to the modern concept of "Reality shifting"? I'm fairly convinced they're the same thing.

We're not currently looking for any mods, but we'll keep you in mind if it ever changes.

[gatewayplurals]

Reverse SoulBonding

One thing I dont hear or see much?

It’s a shame too, I wish it was talked about more. It’s a wild experience in itself but for me it had help me in a few ways!

Definition Reverse SoulBonding- Instead of you being the SoulBonder and having a SB (or muse) as an headmate, you are the SoulBond to someone else.

One can have a SoulBonder? How??

Yes! But currently I’m unsure how other than connecting energies or other personalized ways. If one is able to connect and form a bond with a being, why cant that happen the opposite way? Some would even describe this as being able to go into your already existing SB’s headspace when they’re walking around in their world! Lucifer’s Experience: I am both a SoulBonder and SoulBond! I’ll be focusing more on my SBonders. I technically have 2 and them being from the same verse. However, I mainly go to Silver since he was the first to contact me? It’s interesting. I say I’m a more Day-tripper SB to them and I dont remember much, just lil moments.

Final Thoughts

Though it seems like a rare topic in the community, it does happen to a few people. Not only that, it actually help me to emphasize with my headmates on a more deeper level than ever before. Especially for new ‘mates. It also force me to stop toxic thoughts that harms me or the system in anyway, Like; The invalidity of my headmates, believing our system is fake or we’re pretending OR WHATEVER ELSE! It wasnt healthy---but because what I went through with my SBer for awhile and how it was draining to be around, it break out of that. I still get the doubts once in awhile but it’s not as bad as before.

I’m thankful for that! P.S. I’m not saying one needs to experience this to break this habit, simply talking to someone who understands is another way! I’m just expressing mine. -Lucifer

[fromfiction]

part 1/2 Do you think its possible for hearted people to have..memories from their hearttype? It sounds weird but I have no other idea how to put it. I'm Peridot-hearted (I used to think I was kin, and this was back in that time) and I had a vision when I was handing a paper to my teacher. I had a vision of being the the spaceship as seen in Steven Universe. The hallways were a green-ish color, to my left was a window full of stars. I was in the form of a Peridot, I had holding staff

2/2 or something behind my back, I was going to bestow it upon someone. It lasted less than a second before I was escorted back into reality. I had other visions like this too, but it was not associated with any of my hearttypes. I don't really have memories of having been her, so no, I'm not kin. But what else could this mean?

Are you positive you’re not Peridot-kin? because that does sound like a memory of being her.

Other possibilities are you could have experiences a ‘ride along’ or reverse soulbonding event. 

That’s when your consciousness is projected into the mind of a fictional character going about their day and you experience them and their thoughts with them as they do things. (the way soulbonds experience the life or their bonders)

[soulbonder]

To confirm for the anon (vaguely) asking about reverse 'bonding, I end up going in other character's heads; basically what happens is we'll cross over and they'll be doing their thing in their own body and I and others here will be booping along with them, probably annoying them. Since they're all constantly projected out onto this world, we're also usually constantly projected into their world, so it's like we have separate bodies almost. This doesn't happen too too often tho bc I'm busy af

[soulbonder]

My theory on BEING a soulbond involves dissociation, sometimes extremely so. Becoming a permanent resident would probably involve another headmate to take over the body completely while you dissociate off and show up in the soulbondee's head. Day trippers have it much easier, and phone lines even more so. Another theory on becoming a soulbond involves death but I won't go into that one. These are just personal thoughts.

Interesting thoughts, anon, and I definitely can see your line of reasoning. One thing though- I suppose a permanent resident could also be comatose, ala all those edgy kids cartoon creepypasta theories?

[soulbonder]

Can people become permanent headmates in soulbonds/fictional characters?

If you’re asking if people can become permanent “reverse soulbonds”, as in sharing the mindspace of a fictional character, its theoretically possible.