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Narcissistic manipulation

When considering the behavior of narcissists, it might be hard to imagine how someone could be a narcissist and be inhibited in their approach and behavior.

A covert narcissist may be outwardly self-effacing or withdrawn in their approach, but the end goals are the same

Overt vs. Covert

Covert narcissists are only different from overt (more obvious) narcissists in that they tend to be more introverted. The overt narcissist is more easily identified because they tend to be loud, arrogant, and insensitive to the needs of others and always thirsty for compliments.

Signs to Look For

Although there are some clinical criteria that need to be met in order for someone to be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder, there are some general traits and patterns to look for in everyday interactions if you suspect you might be dealing with a covert narcissist.

Both have deficits in their capacity to regulate their self-esteem.

Being aware of these traits can help empower those who are interacting with the covert narcissist, helping them to recognize and better navigate potentially unhealthy interactions.

Passive Self-Importance

The covert narcissist certainly craves importance and thirsts for admiration but it can look different to those around them. They might give back-handed compliments, or purposefully minimize their accomplishments or talents so that people will offer them reassurance of how talented they are.

Blaming and Shaming

Shaming others is a wonderful tactic of a narcissist in order to secure their sense of an elevated position in relation to others. The overt (extroverted) narcissist might be more obvious in their approach to gaining leverage, such as explicitly putting you down, being rude, criticizing you, and being sarcastic.

The introverted, covert narcissist may have a more gentle approach to explain why something is your fault and they are not to blame.

They might even pretend to be a victim of your behavior.

This puts themselves in a position to receive reassurance and praise from you and others. At the end of these interactions, the goal of the narcissist is to make the other person feel small.

Creating Confusion

Another way to create leverage between them and another person, the covert narcissist needs to use tactics like this to elevate themselves and maintain power in the interaction. They look to cause people to question their perceptions and second-guess themselves. This allows them the opportunity to manipulate and exploit more.

It is not a coincidence that narcissists, in general, tend to gravitate toward interacting with caring and compassionate people. The covert narcissist recognizes those opportunities for manipulation as well. They have no problem letting you know that you are not important.

Giving With a Goal

In general, narcissists are not givers. They find it difficult to put energy into anything that doesn't serve them in some way. A covert narcissist might present themselves in a way that looks like they are giving, but their giving behavior is only demonstrated with the intent of getting something in return.

What to do: Set Boundaries

Narcissists do not have healthy boundaries.

Because covert narcissists lack empathy, have a strong sense of entitlement and exploit others, boundaries are something that get in the way of their goals. The more you can practice setting boundaries with the narcissist, the more consistently you are conveying to them that their tactics are not working.

Setting boundaries can be very difficult, especially if you have never done that before. Not only is it possibly unfamiliar to you, but setting boundaries with a covert narcissist can be pretty intimidating.

Take time to tune back in with yourself, who you are, what you are about, your values, your goals, and your talents.

Strengthening your relationship with yourself is key in being able to speak up during interactions with a narcissist.

https://www.verywellmind.com/understanding-the-covert-narcissist-4584587

How to Recognize Someone With Covert Narcissism

Narcissistic traits are usually easy to recognize. However, covert narcissism can be more difficult to identify. Learn the signs to look for

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