Feb 21, 2014
Q:"This may have been covered previously but were any of you an existing mono couple before finding poly?"
C:"Tenna and I were probably the closest to it, but even then, with her being so active in the BDSM scene, she insisted on a relationship that was at least open enough for her to continue being in scenes."
T:"I did also make allowances for Chris, if he ran across anyone he was interested in sleeping with. We originally only had the relationship open for sex though. It wasn't until after we'd been together a while and Chris met Amanda that we started seriously considering 'regular' polyamory."