re: age, I turned 30 a couple of weeks ago. honestly it's the best, and literally everyone I've talked to who is 30+ has said the exact same thing about turning 30. every single person, regardless of gender. I feel like a Real Adult now, and that comes with a type of confidence I couldn't have imagined or understood when I was in my 20s.
I think growing older is a gift. the passage of time can bring wisdom and understanding if you work on developing those traits. getting older means having more opportunities and more skills to do good things for yourself and others.
If you are a marginalized person, there is real power in getting older because it means you are surviving under systems that would prefer your subjugation and/or extermination. as a trans man, I take great pleasure in that, especially as many politicians and groups in my country, the United States, are trying so hard to kill me and my community by denying us access to things that save our lives and prevent our early deaths. just as delicious is the knowledge that my continued existence drives transphobic members of the queer community absolutely bonkers lol it's the ultimate power move to do nothing less than live my life as a trans man.
I think it's worth asking ourselves: why are we afraid of getting older? what do we believe the consequences will be? are these fears and beliefs realistic?
also critical is asking ourselves where these fears and beliefs come from and whether we can trust those sources to tell us the truth.
yes and yes a thousand times over and i truly absolutely love you for this, thank you, thank you. just as delicious is the knowledge that my continued existence drives transphobic members of the queer community absolutely bonkers lol it's the ultimate power move to do nothing less than live my life as a trans man -- this is absolutely it, entirely it and i'm genuinely so happy for you you have no idea...i hope more than anything life continues to open up so many infinitely rich things for you and that you can keep on growing into yourself in the most expansive and radical way imaginable and that it brings you no end of joy, meaning, and fulfillment! thank you so much again for sharing this it means everything <3
















