Apr 27, 2019
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Weekends are for Self-love 💜
We at Room Privée have certainly done some thinking about this over the years, and have come to a conclusion. Love and sex are NOT the same thing. Love is an emotion or a feeling. There is no definition of love because the word “love” can mean many different things to many different people. Sex, on the other hand, is a biological event. Even though there are different kinds of sex, most sexual acts have certain things in common. Sex may or may not include penetration 👀🤓 • Let’s accept it, matters of love and lust are complicated! For many, love precedes lust, and it may be the other way round for others. Choosing between love and sex is a personal decision based on your preference and expectations. But the consequences of that choice may be anything but predictable. Sometimes what may seem very simple may turn complicated, and the seemingly difficult might be the easiest to achieve 😉💕 • So, let us know, are you more into the love thing or you do you rather want have sex without complicating things??? ⬇🍑🍌
Or do you want to love yourself and have sex with yourself forever and ever? Then check this package out! • • •
We at Room Privée have sometimes wondered how important the brain is when it comes to sexual wellness. If, so, can meditation improve your sex-life? We believe that pleasure is a deeper meditation! 🎏⛩💕😁 • When you apply mindfulness, meditation and yogic principles to your sex life, things begin to shift in a fantastic way. Combined with prana or “life force energy” flowing through our bodies, our tissues are physically more capable of promoting blood flow to promote sexual arousal and pleasure. Staying mindful helps us shift our perspective of how we feel, a key part of giving and receiving pleasure, so we can fully embrace the present moment🎋🍃😁 • No matter what kind of sexual experience you prefer-- solo, with a single partner or multiple partners, kinky or vanilla—being mindful and present can change any experience into a transformative and eye-opening one on a physical, mental and emotional level 😉🐛 • Meditation directly affects the autonomic nervous system which regulates sexual arousal... Did you meditate today? 🦋💙🙃 • • •
Chinese Balls, Ben Wa Balls, Kegel Balls, Geisha Balls… What are they?
This has been a growing subject here in Australia and New Zealand, as more and more women understand the importance of these balls. But what are Chinese balls? What are the real benefits of using them? During my career, I have discussed this subject on multiple occasions with my clients as the usage can have significant benefits for women. Here we share with you a definite guide to Chinese balls and teach about the many positive effects they can have on us women. We will explain how to use them, what they are for, what position is best for using them, recommended time, different types and how they help us to strengthen our pelvic floor and vaginal muscles, which, consequently, increases the intensity of our orgasms and helps us fight urinary incontinence that can sometimes take us by surprise when sneezing or during spontaneous laughter. Chinese balls are, in fact, an extremely important for our sexual health and general wellbeing.
What are Chinese balls? Chinese balls are two balls connected by a cord, although there also exists a version with a single ball for beginners, younger girls, or for particular cases such as women with uterine descent/prolapse. The balls are always attached to an extraction cord which should always lie outside of the vagina. The Chinese balls are placed inside the vagina and strengthen the pelvic floor muscle that needs toning and to be strong since its most important functions to support the vagina, bladder, and rectum.
What is the mechanism of Chinese balls? This point is very important to understand their benefits. The Chinese balls contain in turn small balls, a single ball inside which rotational movements are activated by our own body movements and cause small vibrations. The vaginal muscles are small and easy to work and with these small vibrations, which do not involve any effort, we can manage to improve muscle strength in a surprising way. This muscle toning workout helps prevent urinary incontinence and helps improve the sensitivity and intensity of orgasms just soon after you start training.
What are the physical characteristics of Chinese balls? Average diameter of Chinese balls is around 3.3 cm and they weigh between 30 and 50 g, although they exist heavier. Keep in mind that the smaller the ball, the more difficult it can be to hold it inside if you are a woman with much natural lubrication, and the larger the size the easier it is to hold and feel its vibrations in our vaginal walls. The best way to start is to get yourself a kit, such as this one from Room Privée, with three different sizes that allow you to gradually increase the size and weight you work with, and then slowly progress. The Chinese balls are usually made of medical silicone and/or ABS, a hypoallergenic material, super hygienic, easy to clean, and ultra-smooth texture for comfortable insertion and extraction.
How do you insert Chinese balls? It’s very simple. Relax, and then in the same way you insert a tampon, you slowly insert the first ball, and then the second one inside your vagina by pushing your finger up and letting the extraction cord hanging outside your vaginal opening. To make it even more comfortable, you can add a little bit of water-based lubricant, but never silicone-lubricant because that will actually ruin the silicone in the Chinese balls as it breaks down the surface and makes them gummy and gross.
In what position should I wear them and what should I do? The important thing is walk around with them, move. Chinese balls are effective when the small ball balls inside move and vibrate. Nevertheless, we recommend you do it at home to start with to get used to the sensation and gradually gain comfort and confidence. Stand upright, because of the weight of the balls you will feel like they’re always trying to slip out, which makes our vaginal muscles contract automatically (spontaneously) to keep them inside of us in a natural and almost unconscious way. As you get stronger, you can wear them on different occasions, such as when you go out for shopping, walking around, while you shower, etc. The only thing that is not recommended is to wear them while doing intense training, such as weightlifting, CrossFit, running, Zumba, etc.
When do Chinese balls become necessary? Always! The consequences of gravity and aging combined with the weight of the urine can lead to urine loss and progressive deterioration of the pelvic floor if not exercised. Just as we are used to take care of our bodies by regularly hitting the gym, eating healthy food, and taking care of the skin as we age, it’s important not to forget our sexual and intimate life.
It is highly recommended though, to use Chinese balls after pregnancy. For nine long months the vaginal walls have been supporting the foetus, an extra weight that has weakened them. If the birth was natural, they have suffered more since the vagina has dilated and needs to recover. There are many women who begin to suffer urinary incontinence after childbirth. Fortunately, more and more gynaecologists recommend them to accelerate the recovery process. However, it's not recommended to use them during pregnancy, because during pregnancy you want to increase elasticity of the vaginal walls not tighten them further.
How long should I wear the Chinese balls? The first weeks it’s enough to wear them for 15 to 30 minutes, for three to five days a week, and as you get stronger it’s recommended you gradually increase the time, and even go up to 60 minutes. It is not advisable to do more, as you don’t want to over-train. Think about this as any other workout routine in the gym, where you train for about an hour and then allow your muscles to recover with rest days in-between. In fact, you should treat Chinese balls the same way. There’s a muscle there and we want it toned!
When will I start feeling the benefits? As with any other training routine, if you train with consistency you will see that in less than a month you will begin to feel the results; a feeling of greater strength of the pelvic area, greater control of the vaginal muscles (ideal to avoid those annoying losses of urine during sneezing or intense laughter), and an exceptional increase in sensitivity and pleasure during sex.
Why does the sensitivity of orgasms increase when I train with Chinese balls? An orgasm of medium intensity contains between 3 and 5 contractions per minute, and an intense orgasm generates between 10 and 15 contractions per minute of the pelvic muscle. Training regularly with Chinese balls will increase the involuntary contractions of the pelvic muscles that will also intensify during sex.
Will my partner notice the benefits of my Chinese balls training? Absolutely! I.e. if your partner is male. By training the pelvic muscles, more muscle control is acquired, and more pressure can be applied to the penis during sexual intercourse, thus increasing the pleasure for both. In fact, the origin of the Chinese balls was (as the name indicates) in the Far East where women trained so they could satisfy their men more with the internal movements of their vagina. From there comes the name Geisha balls, it’s oriental name.
How should I clean and store my Chinese balls? You simply clean them with water and good hand-soap after use and air-dry them or use clean towel. For storage you should keep them in a cloth bag or its original box (tip: I keep mine in a sock 😊). Remember, that over time it’s smart to try new types of Chinese balls in the same way you would try new machines in the gym. It will surely continue to help you live healthier and more sexually satisfying life.
May your coffee and pelvic floor both be strong!
Originally published by Room Privée: Chinese Balls, Ben Wa Balls, Kegel Balls, Geisha Balls… What are they?
10 Female Erogenous Zones We Should Always Keep in Mind
“The road to success is not always straight.” These old words of wisdom couldn’t be more relevant when it comes to the body and turning someone on. Even if the obvious goal is right between the legs, it’s important to remember all those hot-spots on the body that can that can cause great stimulation and seriously make your lover (or soon to be lover) horny. We here at the Room Privée office in Sydney, Australia, decided to list 10 female erogenous zones that have proven to be real pleasure points. Learn this by heart, and the road to success might not be so complicated at all.
1. The mouth A very underestimated part in many relationships. How much time do you really dedicate to your lover’s mouth? Her lower lip, her upper lip and the cupid’s bow (the double curve), the shape and textures… Usually, as a part of our sex life, we only use the mouth for kissing and to perform oral sex (obviously), but we tend to forget that the mouth is erogenous zone. “Lips are the most exposed of all erogenous zones, and are packed with a bunch of nerve endings located very close to the surface of the skin (they’ve got 100 times more than our fingertips),” says Emily Morse, sexologist and host of the Sex With Emily podcast. She furthermore encourages you to “use your own lips, teeth, and tongue to lick, nibble, and caress the top and bottom lip, experimenting with different amounts of pressure.”
2. Inside of the bend of the elbow and knee – or simply most areas of thin skin These are often extremely sensitive and exciting areas when caressed, as they circulate enough blood vessels and can give wonderful pleasures from tickling and gentle strokes. This applies for both men and women, and these areas can also be found between the inner thighs, the arches of the feet, and even the biceps and areas around shoulder blades. Give those areas gentle strokes, kiss them, tickle them with a feather, and even adding few drops of sensual oil can turn into a magical experience.
3. Feet and ankles It’s well known that the feet have endless nerve endings that affect the entire body. Hence, the popularity of foot massage which has been practiced for centuries for medical purpose, relaxing, and even as an erotic experience.
If this is something you generally like, go and have a foot massage and try to discover what are the main pleasure points on your own feet. But it would certainly be more fun to do this with your partner and caress their feet with affection and find what part on their feet is most sensual. Don’t forget to use a bit of warm oil with aromas to heighten the experience.
4. The earlobes A light bite, a kiss, or a soft whisper in the ear can become one of the most exciting shivers of pleasure in the world! Bring to life the most sensitive feelings of your lover’s body with this small and cute body part, a game that can literally be played anywhere. At least, it’s hard to imagine someone being offended with you touching your lover’s earlobe wherever you are. Just do it at the next dinner party, at the movies, and turn your lover crazy completely unexpected.
5. Nipples Ok, maybe this one is quite obvious, but some people just need to hear it. The nipples are one of the most sensitive erogenous zones and so pleasurable for some women that they can even reach an orgasm by solely stimulating them. Each person is, of course, different and it varies greatly between individuals of how the nipples should be played with. We encourage you to start slowly and don’t pressure too hard, watch your lover’s reaction, listen to them moaning, and asking them what they like in order to please them the most. Remember, it’s about them!
Whether playing with the nipples is a part of a foreplay with a partner, or you squeeze them during solo play, caressing this area should simply be a requirement. If you’re feeling a little wild, you could use some nipple covers, or even nipple clips if you’re in a naughty mood. We dare you. We double dare you!
6. Lower back and the lumbar area Have you ever tried putting a pillow under your lower back while you’re having sex or playing with yourself? You can use a pillow, a cushion, or even a towel, as the purpose is simply to raise this part of the body to naturally improve the degree/angle of penetration during intercourse or that of a vibrator like this one here. This way you will stimulate the G-spot much more easily. Give it a try and we bet it’ll become one your favourite tricks.
7. Play with temperature changes on the skin It’s no myth that playing with cold/hot effects on the skin can be a huge turn-on. Use ice cube and gently glide it over you lover’s skin or play with aphrodisiac oils. Create an exciting experience by playing with the sensation of temperature as it can be quite stimulating for the whole body. It’s also a good idea of mixing this with some of the ideas mentioned here above and you’re guaranteed to take the lust to the next level.
8. Thighs and cheeks (lower cheeks of course) Sometimes a good spanking on the butt can stimulate you in a surprising way, this of course applies for both men and women. It’s super exciting to fuel this sensation of both pleasure and pain that both partners can begin to like.
Have you never received a good slap on your butt during sex? If not, it’s certainly time for you to try something new! It can be fun to do it during foreplay as well as during sex, or simply on the sofa while you play with your partner and practice a little spanking. Use a flat hand, or even better, use a leather flogger or a whip for extra stimulation, such as this one here. It’s ok to be a bit naughty sometimes (or always…).
9. Hands and wrists Time for you lover to understand who’s the master here. Tie ‘em up! Use erotic handcuffs, rope, or even a belt. Anything can work, as long as they can’t get away. Tying your lover will take you away from predictable love making as you will be tempted to try new things in your bedroom adventure while they’re completely at your mercy. Don’t hesitate to mix it up with a little spanking.
Your bedroom explorations will be taken to new heights of erotic excitement as you keep your naughty lover restrained and start by teasing and tickling all of their body with a flogger or a whip. Take the opportunity to blindfold them because then they have far more sensitivity to touch and everything you wish to do to them. Show ‘em who’s in charge.
A good way to start is to get yourself a beginner’s bondage set which pretty much includes all the essentials to start, like this one here. Remember, the sweetest smiles hold the darkest secrets.
10. Always give massage, not only at the beginning of a relationship Here at Room Privée we’re sometimes baffled by how many couple only massage each other at the beginning of their relationship. It shouldn’t be like that, and we should continue this practice throughout our relationship. It can only do good.
Give your lover delicious massage from neck to butt. Slather a bit of good massage oil and slide your hands over them in waving movements applying different pressure and add all the love and creativity you can come up with. Because a good massage can always be a great stimulation and a beginning of a something wilder and more fun.
Originally published by Room Privée: 10 Female Erogenous Zones We Should Always Keep in Mind
If masturbation is wrong, I don’t want to be right! 😏😈🤩 • Masturbation is a normal, enjoyable and healthy experience. • Here below are some very good reasons why you should do it more often: • 1- It makes you happier😁 • 2- You learn more about yourself and you become more comfortable with your body🍑 • 3- It can improve your sex life, as you know more what you want🥳 • 4- It helps you sleep as it releases endorphins, making your nervous system relaxed and zzz…😴 • 5- It’s a great way to release sexual tension🍾 • 6- Masturbating can ease body aches and menstrual pain (scientifically tested by us)🍭 • 7- It relieves stress💆🏼♂💆🏼♀ • 8- Masturbation helps your body stay sexual... even when you’re not having sex💥💥 • 9- If you’re in a relationship, it’s a great way to mix things up — and keep you coming back for more 🤓 • 10- There are tons of cool gadgets to help you masturbate. We have them all right here www.roomprivee.com 😉💕
8 Reasons Why You Should Masturbate More
There are so many reasons why masturbating is good for you, so we here at the Room Privée offices in Sydney have selected 8 reasons for you to do more of it. Much more!
1. It helps you to know yourself better Masturbation is an adventure that helps you know yourself better, and a great way to explore your body and sexuality. Create your own journey of pleasures around your hottest erogenous zones, rhythm, breath, and your most intimate fantasies, and games.
2. It is an adventure towards sexual freedom You can be completely without fear of doing anything right or wrong, without any limits of time and space, without any complexes or taboos of any kind, as masturbating gives you the freedom to feel pleasure in its deepest dimension. You can be without fear of crossing the lines of obsolete beliefs of past generations and simply let yourself be carried away by your natural sexual instinct. Masturbation brings you complete freedom!
3. It strengthens your immune system Masturbations makes you healthier. Seriously! A study at the Essen University in Germany found that masturbating increases the circulation of lymphocytes and the production of cytokines, cells that fight diseases, and consequently strengthen your immune system. Gloria Barme, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist stressed this point and said that it’s even healthier than brushing your teeth every day. We at Room Privée recommend brushing teeth AND masturbating. Not at the same time thought. Or maybe…
4. Relaxing, reduces stress, and improves sleep By masturbating you release endorphins, your nervous system relaxes, you burn a bit of energy, and you become pleasantly calm. All that together reduces stress and can lower blood pressure and, if you do it at night it can seriously help you fall asleep.
5. Increases your ability to reach an orgasm By getting to know your body more, you will start understanding better what your erogenous zones are and how to touch yourself and stimulate those hot spots. Furthermore, you will learn better what you like and how you like your solo play, not only at the physical level but also mentally.
The more you learn about yourself, the more pleasure you will be able to achieve during sex with your lover. You will seriously improve your ability to reach powerful orgasm. So, masturbation can seriously improve your sex life.
6. Strengthens and tones the pelvic floor muscles (women only … obviously) It’s just like any other workout, without the sweat and pain of course. Women do not only masturbate for the reasons we’ve talked about here above, but also to strengthen the kegel muscles. This is something you can do with “Kegel Balls” (sometimes called “Chinese Balls” or “Ben Wa Balls”). The results of using Kegel Balls are extremely positive for most women as it can help combat vaginismus and urinary incontinence, and it strengthens your kegel muscles. By tightening your pelvic muscles, the greater your ability to reach powerful orgasms and enhanced sensations. Click here to see a good Kegel ball set to start: Bettersex Kegel Toner Balls Set.
7. There’s always a surprise Not all orgasms you get are the same, nor is there only one type of stimulation that gives you pleasure. This can vary much as some are more intense and some have completely different sensation. Therefore, every time you masturbate you can enjoy different intensity and completely different orgasms. Experiment with sex toys, lubricants, and positions. Simply allow yourself to experiment with different types of masturbation and keep enjoying yourself. This vibrator here, for example, has a suction mechanism that stimulates the clitoris intensely as well as giving powerful internal vibrations, a combination that gives us amazing thrills. Click here fore more information. Remember, self-love is the best love.
8. It makes us feel good and therefore it makes us happy Happy is good! Happy people live longer. And if you live longer you can masturbate more. And if you masturbate more you’ll be more happy. And live longer. And … basically, if you masturbate you can become 120 years old. Not bad at all.
Emily Smith, MRes Sydney, Australia
Originally published by Room Privée: 8 Reasons Why You Should Masturbate More
There are some women out there that have bigger balls than many men! True.🤭😉😜 Confident, strong and fearless. • Here are some tips how to date amazing girls like that: • 1- Texting rules don’t apply: Forget about that whole “I don’t text first”, bullshit🤨 • 2- She is not pushover: If she’s made a decision, she’s going to stick with it. There is nothing you or anyone else can do to change that😏 • 3- She is blunt: She won’t nod her head and agree with whatever it is someone is saying if that’s not how she really feels🤫 • 4- She’s genuine and independent: She is friends with whoever she wants to be friends with and if you do her wrong, she won’t just stick around – she has far more important people in her life👯♀👯♀💕 • 5- She is outspoken about her feelings: There is no pulling teeth in this relationship. You won’t have to sit there guessing what you did wrong or playing those silly games😁 • 6- She’ll call you out for all your bullshit: Being drunk is no excuse for treating us like crap. Having a rough day at work does not make us your punching bag – take your anger out somewhere else😡 • 7- She wants to experience new and fun things in her sexual life: You can always surprise her with a present from our website and allow her to be the boss!👮🏻♀❣
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