💋Are they more sensual or sexual?
📖What is their favorite outside of the bedroom activity to do with their partner?
🛏What is their favorite bedroom activity to do with their partner?
😘Does their demeanor change when in a relationship?
👫Do they display affection in public? What about in private?
My muse in a relationship? // @rotinthedark
💋Are they more sensual or sexual?
Sensual — but the two can sometimes go hand in hand. Raum is more authentic physically than verbally. If he’s lying with his mouth, then he’s more likely telling the truth with his hands, his eyes, the tilt of his chin. . . all of those other small signals.
This also goes for physicality between him and other people. He uses touch frequently to communicate, to express himself. Whether that leads to sex or not is almost unimportant. In the end, sex for Raum is more of a mental experience — as strange as it might sound, there’s bit of a difference between what feels good physically and what actually turns him on. I would say sensuality is more important.
📖What is their favorite outside of the bedroom activity to do with their partner?
Going out and doing stuff together. Honestly almost anything is on the table if he feels comfortable enough. But I think something he would really enjoy is exploring somewhere new. Walking or driving around together and finding new things to experience, places to eat at, pointing out things you’ve never seen before and approaching them. It’s rare he gets to experience something fresh like this, he would appreciate it a lot.
🛏What is their favorite bedroom activity to do with their partner?
Bedroom activity sounds kind of vague but I’m assuming this means sexual activity. Which is like. ?????? Raum likes to have sex. It doesn’t have to be complicated. It can be. Frequently he likes it to be. But at the end of the day, what works for one person won’t for another. This relies heavily on chemistry.
But I suppose I could say, in general — Raum is dominant. He prefers to top. He has sadistic leanings. He likes to take his time, control and manipulate his partner in the bedroom, whether that's through soft or hard methods. On the flip side he also likes things a little rough and wild, he likes to chase someone and hold them down, he likes to be scratched and bitten. It really depends on the chemistry he has with each partner!
😘Does their demeanor change when in a relationship?
Yes — gradually, little by little. He’s not the type that will flip a switch when things become ‘official’ and start calling you his partner. He won’t even push for things to be official in the first place, he’s not that kind of person. But as he grows fond of someone, his bias towards them will become apparent. He is generally more open with them, for good and bad. He will share things about himself with them. They will see emotions and reactions from him that others would not. In general, his partner is like a step above other people — they will feel it, that they have a special position in his eyes, even if he doesn’t necessarily say it.
👫Do they display affection in public? What about in private?
