#rvrtxt

[forest-xblm]

if im a fem-aligned/leaning exby that likes video games do i get to call myself a gamer girl and if so how do i acquire a (decent) bf that finds that attractive

[forest-xblm]

tired: recording covers of songs i like

wired: yearning for attention and affection from boys

inspired: recording songs i like because they're on the playlist i listen to while yearning for attention and affection from boys

[forest-xblm]

i've cracked the code. yall see "boys" and "yearning" in the same post and smash that little heart and the swirly arrows like its a reflex reaction huh

[forest-xblm]

hey this is OFFICIALLY a post for fem-aligned/lunarian exbies like me!!

it can be a weird experience to be like, none gender with left girl that still likes boys. like, am i technically straight?? am i gay-ish?? who knows!! who cares!! we're still valid xblms all the same and you can pry that fact from my cold dead hands

we deserve boys in our lives that will treat us like their favorite person/girl all the same and by golly we Will Have Them Someday!! we are still xblm no matter what!!

This Blog is for mlm/xblm of *all* alignments!! Even if ur sometimes feminine-leaning!! You are welcome here!! I love and support you!!

[non-fem-aligned xb ppl and men do NOT clown on this post or i'll fight you]

[forest-xblm]

hey where are the posts yearning for (n/x)b partners at

is it too much to ask to have some handsome fellas yearn for someone like me for once?

[forest-xblm]

woah howdy pardners! i just noticed we've got some folks rollin up in here and around my posts that i would rather not so lemme make this quite clear

tr/nsmeds and tr/scum are not, have never been, and will not ever be welcome in this house, nor should they interact with my posts in any way.

don't let the door hit you on the way out, and keep your nasty-ass fingers off my posts kthx

this is not a discourse blog and i'll refrain from making reference to it in future but Just So Everyone Knows Where We Are, this is it

[forest-xblm]

with regards to the whole (e)nb(y) issue, i would like to propose a compromise to allow nonbinary ppl to retain simple terminology without infringing on that of Black people's.

the whole reason nonbinary folk use "nb" (when it's better not to for aforementioned reasons) is because it's shorthand, right?

which also makes it work really nicely with the whole "nblnb"/"nblm"/"nblw"/etc format. having recently changed urls to "xlm" rather than "nblm", what say we to the idea of using "xb" instead? it:

• avoids confusion with "nb" in the context of meaning "nonBlack" and doesn't appropriate the terminology Black people use

• is the same length as "nb" and thus fits squarely into the same shorthand we as nonbinary people have been using "nb" for

• can still be easily understood to mean non-binary, either as the x "crossing out" the binary or as "crossing" or being beyond the binary

• can still be read as "exby" if you're into using it for that

If there are any Black ppl (especially Black enbies!) out there with ideas or suggestions on how to better implement the idea, don't hesitate to add on!

//don't derail//

[forest-xblm]

i would also like to take this moment to be an absolute shill and implore everyone hanging around my neck of the woods to go check out Lewis Capaldi's album Divinely Uninspired to a Hellish Extent. It's real real good and honestly some Prime yearning material. cannot recommend this madlad enough