Comments from Question 7 - How would you feel if down the line it is never revealed (EVER) that Louis and Harry were in a relationship?
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I will always think it was real and I'm sure they'll share their story eventually, EVEN if they break up. At the end of the day Eleanor will have to be explained and there will always be questions regarding Harry.
I don't like to be That Person who stubbornly insists that they're 100% right and there's no room for a margin of error, but yeah, we're 100% right; these boys are in love.
That's how convinced I am. That is how much I believe in their love.
I know that if they came out it would be so incredibly awesome for so many people, young and old, so I'm sure I will feel a bit gutted if they never do. BUT, of course, it's 100% their choice.
At this point there's nothing that makes me believe that they aren't in a relationship. If they break-up, we're definitely going to see it. Their body language and behaviour will tell us that. But however, it doesn't seem that they're going to break-up soon (ever actually but of course I can't be sure and anything can happen. I just really think that I have never seen two people who are more in love. They have tattoos on their skin. Tattoos are forever. Of course there is possibility to remove them but seriously? I don't think that they're going to do that and it's really difficult to remove so many tattoos.
I would be very, very, very surprised if they never came out or no one ever mentioned it in an inevitable tell-all in the future.
The two of them are very aware of their influence, and even if they prefer the privacy of the closet I think all the possibilites would persuade them to come out. Youve seen how Louis loves his charities, and I think Harry would like to help out in what ways he could as well.
f that should happen, and they continue the way they’ve been acting for the past four years, I would still believe what I do right now and have for quite some time. I think they’re very private people, so I don’t expect them to make a big spectacle if or when they decide to come out.
not an option but, I'd definitely be bit sad if we never got to see them holding hands and kiss and stuff!
I believe that they are in a relationship. Even if they broke up and it is never revealed, I would still believe that they were in a relationship once.
I doubt it will be revealed
It would give lots of people a hard time, but i still just want them to be happy. Feel me?
Too many things don't make sense with the narrative. If we were told it was not real, I'd still have so many question, and things that make no sense at all, like tattoos, and their lovey dovey phase in x factor and its tour. Jesus, the fucking wellington even. It just doesnt make sense for it to not be real.
I'd just be depressed and stop believing in love. But I am pretty sure they will eventually come out, even if only after the band is finished. I hope that Harry and Louis are able to stay together until then.
Harry will definitely become more obviously gay. Not like he hides it much now. Louis may never publically come out.
I dont know you got me here. If they are in a relationship they will come out, its kind of hard to get married and adopt without the media/fans finding out...
I would probably assume they either broke up or just never wanted to come out. I can't really see that happening though.
If by down the line you mean when One Direction is over, and they're all settled, then yes, I will feel sad mostly, that I spent so much time believing something and I was wrong. I will be confused too cause I'm very sure they are together, their auras are intense
If that were the case I'd be very very confused. BUT I do think they will come out/be outted never the less.
I'm not 100% positive but I think once the band stuff calls down, if they haven't already, they'll pull a Lance Bass.
It is up to them whether they come out or not. As long as the people surrounding them are the important ones who accept them I'm fine with it.
Even if they are really together and stuff, I dont think theyll ever like come out and parade their relationship. I think is gonna be more of a quite thing.
Honestly, we wouldn't be seeing as much of their lives (hopefully) in the future so I'd be okay to respect their privacy. I would like to know some answers but then again, I'd rather they come out choosing than being outed or forced.
i would be disappointed, but if we never find out, it means it was their choice, so its ok
The validity of their relationship isn't based off of whether they come out or not. It's kind of painfully obvious they are together even though managment makes them hide it.
I'd have a LOT of questions about the media narrative around them.
h&l are clearly already tired of being closeted. i believe they're in this relationship for the long haul, and neither of them would be willing or able to hide the relationship for the rest of their lives.
I''m hoping i will just forget about it, but i know that will never happen so, i would be upset and confused as to why they never came out, or i would just pray that they are happy and if they end up being straight thats perfectly okay
I would think that they had been dating and probably broke up somewhere alone the way but that the relationship was definitely real for the last few years
Their lives, their choices. I hope they do what makes THEM happy.
Ultimately, because it doesn't directly affect me in any way, I feel like I'll just be more of a "well okay I mean that's weird that they acted like that but yeah alright no worries it's their lives" although I'd definitely feel a little betrayed(not the right word) to know that Louis who I genuinely believe is a lovely and considerate person is in fact that homophobic d-bag he's painted as.
I do believe very strongly that Louis and Harry are in a relationship and would be extremely surprised to find that they were never in a relationship. However if this was announced I would need excessive and in depth proof to believe it.
If it was never revealed and they don't marry anyone else or whatever, then I'd surely just assume they want to keep being together quietly. If they "move on" and be with other people other than themselves (WHICH I DON'T EVEN BELIEVE WILL HAPPEN), then I would still believe they were really together at some point.
If they are/ever were together, I am confident we will find out in some way, shape, or form.
I think they're going to come out soon based on recent events.
Well, I'd be incredibly sad, I have to admit.
i'd think that they had been on and off and then they broke up for real. and it was just never mentioned.
If they don't come out after their popularity is over, I'll believe that something went wrong because there's no way they've never had any interest in each other.
They might not want to fuss with officially coming out. They might just want to live out their lives, not want any more press being drawn to them.
Although things are looking quite good at the moment, there's no certainty of the coming out. They might be closeted for the rest of their careers and after that just be quiet. to be honest, no one would really care if two +40 y/o men would walk around hand in hand if they weren't very popular at the moment.
I have high hopes that one day maybe, but if not it would be saddening. but its their life not ours, so im not too sure. i dont think i can imagine them with a girl to be honest.
This is my biggest fear. That we will never know if they were in a relationship because they've broken up before they've come out or if their hype/popularity fades. But I'll still believe they were commited to each other.
i know that they might not be together and we might be wrong, and i'm fine with that. there's only so much of their lives we see, no one can know what goes on behind locked doors. i'm sure if louis and harry are together they will stop hiding it at one point, they seem too proud and sick of pretending not to. if it's never revealed i don't think they ever dated.
I'd think that due to all the stress, fame, homophobic people and just generally the pressure of being in a homosexual relationship while in the music industry when you're expected to be a manwhore basically, it all got too much for them to handle and one day they decided to end it. but no one can tell me they were never in a relationship. or that they weren't deeply in love with each other.
That's the thing though. If they continue their relationship they will come out at some point. I doubt anyone could live their entire life closeted like that. If they break up it's very possible that we'll never ever hear a confirmation that they were together at one point in history. It would not change what I believe in. Right now they are together, and have been for the past 3-4 years.
Its their lives and their choices. What makes them happy is what matters to me. Revelation or no revelation, its their private matter and they deserve full control over it.
If for some reason they did break up, I am sure both would eventually come out as gay. If that happened, based on what I've seen, I would be convinced they were previously in a relationship.
If they stay together I'm positive that they will come out at some point, but if they don't, that is not solid proof that they have never been together. Just like any relationship, it might not last for ever, and if it doesn't, they have no reason to come out.
I'll be honest, I'm still on the fence about it all - 85% of me believes that they are together, but Elounor does throw me off a bit (mainly because I don't want to believe that I actually live in a world where people think that paid bearding is a necessary thing). If they're never revealed to have been in a relationship I guess I'll be torn between wondering if we were wrong the entire time, or wondering if they simply broke up and decided to keep the whole thing a secret.
someday archaeologists will uncover evidence of their love, it's altered the chemical makeup of every place they've been
I would certainly feel down, betrayed obviously by the music industry, but I would really feel bad because I'll certainly ask myself questions as to 'who was honest?' and ' Am I that bad at analysing people?'. I'll feel sad.
Coming out could have a big, negative impact on the boys as a whole. They know that. That's why they aren't out now.
They might not make an official statement, but I think they're going to hang out more in public, and might even act coupley, but might not comment on the matter