2. ♥ When they have a crush on someone, how do they let them know?
Tanryn will tell them! Granted, in Aethan’s case she asked for harp lessons first, and spent a good week or so agonizing over whether she really wanted to bone the guy who got sent to Hearthglen from the Silvermoon Church of the Light (the Church-based equivalent of being exiled to Siberia) for very good reasons.
Annnnnd then she decided the answer was yes, and made him dinner. Despite her protestations to the contrary, this is also around when genuine feelings for him started to develop beyond friendship and lust.
Lunath, meanwhile, suffers in silence for weeks. He was a bit more direct in life, but undeath has made him wary of pursuing anything resembling feelings (not to mention making those feelings much rarer in the first place). His desire not to be pushy or scare his boyfriend off meant that they hovered in each other’s orbit long enough for the entire rest of the household to develop frustrated twitches* before he actually asked if they could date.
(*”JUST TAKE HIM OUT ON A DATE. ANYWHERE. JUST SO WE DON’T HAVE TO SEE YOU TWO MAKING COW EYES AT EACH OTHER” <--Tanryn)