Hi! Any thoughts on 7and 8h Pluto synastry? It seems pretty interesting to me.
Hey!
I'm mean yeah a lot of thoughts. However, I'm less familiar with 8th house Pluto synastry. Sounds very transformative or (self)destructive. I just know some 8th housers natally.
But with 7th house, I have experience, since I had that with someone in real life. And I've also read a lot on it when I read about JFK Jr's and Carolyn Bessette Kennedy's relationship and some other celebrity relationships.
About my synastry that happened a few years ago, as a Pluto person I definitely very much wanted to control the 7th house person. But more out of distrust that they can't be tamed. 7th house person was stubborn and self serving and I wanted to control the amount of it. I also was constantly sensing ulterior motives? Big time? This person was also very damaging to my reputation and I didn't wanted to be acquinted anymore. There was also a lot of reading between the lines. I felt as if I understood an interpretion of the said words, but the other person understood completely different interpretion of the said words. It's like we both were operating from different desires. He wanted something and I wanted something completly else. However, there was still this unspoken understanding of some basic needs and reactions. But it was a win lose situation, when the other won, I lost. And vice versa. I felt it was weighing down very heavy on both of us, because of how much compromise was needed CONSTANTLY. I do miss this person, since impact was huge. But at the same time we were both depressed with each other? Because of unrequited needs and desires. So it felt you feeling a bit empty and discouraged if this will ever work out or there will be constant readjustment. I must say that the person really understood well my human behaviour, reaction and all the nuances well, which made you feel very acknowledged and seen. So probably because of that I stayed in the connection wayy longer than I should. That knowing of the little nuances really gave hope for the future.
Now, I have to ask YOU what are your thoughts since you asked so specifically? Any experience with 7th or 8th house synastry Pluto?
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