ERISis a goddess and/or spirit who was known to sow discord into every interaction she shared. The DAUGHTER OF NYX, she was also known to be a ruler of darkness who revels in the bloodshed and torture of her enemies on the battlefield.
You've heard of the Trojan war? ERIS threw that golden apple for the FAIREST goddess, and when zeus wouldn't pick amongst them, he sent for a young Paris to pick amongst Athena, Hera, and Aphrodite. She was not invited to the wedding of Thetis and Peleus so the world was on the receiving hand of her VENGEANCE.
From this action MYTH we can infer these main points:
𑣲 Eris is CUNNING, OBSERVANT, AND INTELLIGENT
Chaos can only come from the knowledge of what peace is in that moment. She knows what makes people angry and uses it for all the wrong reasons/her own purposes.
𑣲 Eris is SELECTIVELY WISE
She knows who to aim for, and what people are weak to. Once in the middle of the bloodshed she can go wild, and she has that wisdom to get her there
𑣲 Eris is VENGEFUL and PETTY
It was a massive insult for her to not be invited and she started a war over it. Reasonable to me.
So...
𑣲 You'll often be ISOLATED by other people
Everyone feels that you are too disruptive, so too avoid problems you are simply excluded before anything could happen just as Eris was.
Prominent Eris in someone's chart will reflect these; of course not literally. I doubt that anyone reading this will abuse or start a war. Those with Eris as an INFLUENTIAL asteroid most likely won't believe in alliances or teams, which especially applies for those born in the last 50, as Eris is in Aries. You may feel EXCOMMUNICATED in some way from communities; its a similar effect to a prominent Uranus if aspected enough. This doesn't mean disloyalty or selfishness, but it means that while trying to find "their people", it will be harder because they need people who understand their line of thinking and people who are non-judgemental. If insulted in some way, they are unforgiving and relentless. You can be overly defensive and take things the wrong way very easily, so finding ways to keep a calm head always helps.
In practice examples:1H -> You look like trouble to other people, may have traditionally "violent" interests or way of speaking that offsets people. You're seen as a solo act and you don't settle for less, which people may respect, but don't allow themselves to truly understand where it comes from.
4H -> Home feels charged in a way that it makes things hard for you to connect with family unless you're bonded over a shared hatred, or you may be. Family may go on vacations without you or have "family nights" and not include you
7H -> you may have more enemies than the average person who are confused by the way you express your feelings, you don't lie down but instead deal with them headfirst and headstrong, and if you don't have that strong support system you'll make public enemies and rivals who see you as some who causes surface level disruption for the fun of it.
12H -> There is an anger inside that feels likes it comes from nowhere, but in reality its from small things that have built up over the years, the desire to be seen yet not being allowed to. Hidden enemies are intimidated and because of them excluding you in your past, you never expect to be invited and may choose to live in isolation.
ASC -> At first glance, you look like someone who isn't the most diplomatic or communicative, people may say you're full of fire. You can become violent when pushed too far when not wanting to work on yourself and may have daydreams of hurting people to self soothe your anger/desire for revenge.
DSC -> From what I know, this could manifest into you getting into a marriage that can become violent at times when proper communication is not put in place, and putting space in between you and the future partner can actually be beneficial, but the space MUST be a mutual want.
Not EVERYONE is meant for a Sag like partner, so dont force yourself to be with one because of an aesthetic or because your signs match.
Not all sagittarius placements CHEAT. It is a hard placement to date if you try to CAGE them thinking they will cheat. They need freedom, they need trust, and you need to make sure that you're dating a HEALTHY Sagittarius so it can help you can form that trust.
[ HEALTHY VS UNHEALTHY ]
A HEALTHY sag influence on someone will make them UPFRONT and HONEST when telling you they no longer want to be with you. It might not be the most FLOWERY break-up, but they'll try to break it to you as softly as they can. They dont want to delay it, nothing can hold them down.
An UNHEALTHY sag will likely have POOR COMMUNICATION. They haven't entirely been a part of the relationship in the first place, but if they were and became no longer interested, they'll leave emotionally. Months could go by, and they've already moved on. They just haven't old you yet. So yes, UNHEALTHY Sagittarius may cheat. They dont want to DELAY their new life and what it can hold. You can't hold them down. Like other unhealthy astrological placements would.
HEALTHY sagittarius' are absolutely beautiful, they take you into their world, you can see it through their eyes. You'll hear the birds sing a little sweeter, and when you fall, instead of pity, you'll be greeted by laughter as well as their smile, and a hand to help you up.
UNHEALTHY feels like NEGLECT. It basically is neglect. You keep reaching out, you get nothing back. They leave you to your own devices, they dont offer to spend time with you unless it's with other people, they still want the ADMIRATION you give them after all. No journeys or mountains to cross, it's pure silence. If I was to give them a myth, it would be the myth of SISYPHUS, cursed to push a boulder up a hill for eternity, and when it reaches the top, it starts all over again.
SAGITTARIUS PLACEMENTS are not 'cheaters', they are people who love who they love, and they love the attention just like anyone else would. Once you feel that pull away, a direct conversation should fix the avoidance, and if not then it's time to go seperate ways, because they no longer want to be souls tied together on a forever journey.