artechniq replied to your post: anonymous said:why do u wanna mur...
My grandma is exactly the same. I haven’t seen her in years, but whenever she visited she never hesitated to point out how ugly I am, how big my teeth are, how scronny I am, etc. Yet she wonders why I dislike her so much. It’s awful, I understand you
I'm really sorry you have to through that :c The worst thing is that she's here every weekend, on both saturday and sunday, so we have to get along but it just doesn't work. And yes my grandma doesn't understand why I behave towards her like this either, ugh. thank you bb <3
screaming-whale replied to your post: anonymous said:why do u wanna mur...
I know this too (kind of). Try not to feel attacked. It’s hard to change old people, they’re the worst and stuck in their opinions most of the time.
It's so hard not to feel attacked though, especially when she keeps repeating those things every time I see her. I honestly try to be nice, and usually I manage, but sometimes it's too much for me to handle. Yeah you can't change them anymore and that's pretty sad :c thank you <33
