why an infp would love an entp?
entp doesn’t truly love anybody under normal circumstances, not “really”. (this is why i associated extps and extjs as dismissive avoidants in another post) so if infp can make entp love her, she would get a super rare love that’s impossible to find in nature! and woot! infps are all about rare and unique and obscure.
also: “The Supervisor (infp) sees the Supervisee (entp) as quite interesting and capable, but incomplete and therefore in need of some help and advice.”
so for an infp, entp can be a very interesting project. can you teach this person totally alien to fi ability to love and trust and vulnerability and stuff? it’s like picking a mistreated dog from shelter and keep giving it love even though its first intinct is to bite. but the very fact earning hard to earn love makes it more valuable, more special to infp!
if you are interested with your supervisee pay attention as this is the most important part: “When there are more than two people present, the Supervisee (entp) often attempts to release themselves from the control of the Supervisor (infp) by starting arguments for the sake of it or by attempting to manoeuvre themselves into the commanding position.”
i definitely have been as asshole to my current infp gf in this way quite a few times. this is because okay, i guess i can trust you and be nice and “love”… geez! but that’s when we are one on one. others can not know i have feelings!
= fi trickster
= hard se role
advice to entp who is dealing with infp therefore: make sure and don't hurt the se vulnerable of them. don't be impactfully bossy or sudden or stuff like that. control the fe child, don't sacrifice the infp for a joke or something.
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