#seb spawns

[transebs]

Ya know what

We’re gonna say it.

Headcanoning someone as trans because they are slightly smaller, softer or fit the ‘soft twans boi’ aesthetic go fuck yourself because we are not small uwu boys. We are men.

[transebs]

I think as humans we think too large, instead of ‘this year is the year I’ll get in shape’ we should say ‘this week I’ll sign up to a gym’ or ‘this week I’ll make a schedule for working out’.

If we think too big then we just keep putting it off, but if we give ourselves a set deadline that’s rapidly approaching - we are more likely to respond.

[transebs]

‘I forgot my name again

I think that’s something worth remembering

Spiders in your favourite shoes

Just leave them be cause they’re more scared of you’

devil town v.2

( cavetown )

[transebs]

I don’t wanna be dysphoric anymore...

I just wanna be... spidey...

[transebs]

Hey fun fact

If you are non binary and are attracted to girls OR boys (not both) you are straight. A heterosexual. Because hetero means ‘different’ aka being non binary and liking a different gender.

[transebs]

I’m the opposite of a jack of all trades

I suck at everything.

[transebs]

Parents and misgendering ?

[before I continue I am talking about parents trying to accept their kid, not those who are actually transphobic]

I know some people tend to think that if a parent doesn’t switch over pronouns and gender of their trans kid instantly they are a bad parents and inherently transphobic.

But why ? Some kids need to understand that when a parent struggles to change pronouns (or perhaps say they need time before they can) that parent is needing time to process what is happening.

They have known you as x all your life, and now you are asking them to accept you as y, as their trans child. That is a big change, regardless of however long you’ve been looking into it - they weren’t there all those nights you were crying because of your body, because ‘why is this happening to me.’ Or perhaps those years you spent researching what it was, why you were feeling these... things. They weren’t there for the process you had of losing what you were before and accepting ‘this makes me happier’.

Trans people need to give their parents (those who are trying to understand why) a moment to catch up on what’s happening.

I came out to my mother about three years ago. I realised I was trans aprox five years ago- maybe borderline six years now. I am seeing a gender therapist to talk these things over (with both my mother and just myself) on Friday. I am going to be able to explain to her why this isn’t going away, and why this is affecting me. I can prove to her that I won’t change my mind.

Being trans is hard, but you must also realise that your parents need time to adapt to what’s happening. Please don’t immediately attack your parents if you can see they are trying to come to terms.

Because they are trying. And so must you.

[transebs]

Hi I would just like to say that my professional gender therapist today said that a lot of ‘trans’ kids do it for ‘Willy nilly’ reasons and then proceeded to say that it’s a difficult life to live.

She followed that immediately with how bad my Dysphoria was.

So yeah there’s my proof you dumb ass’ - a literal professional who solely works with trans kids said that too many kids are ‘being’ trans for fun.