#secuality

[angellvomit]

Sometimes i wish i wasn't part of the lgbt+ community.

The childishness and sheer asshole-itude and toxicity makes me want to rip my skin off. Its like no one knows how to have a comversation without screaming at each other

No ome can have an opinion without getting hate mail.

Our brothers and sisters who died everyone who rioted at Stonewall didn tdo thst for us to come to this.

And all the exclusionists so dead set on invalidating everyone who isnt their own identity or doesnt conform exactly to what they believe.

What are you accomplishing?

I know the good is supposed to outweigh the bad but at this point all i can see is the bad in this community. It doesnt fdel as loving or accepting as anyone says anymore.

Idk.

Excuse my 16 year old ramblings

[mochimistress]

sometimes I wonder if I’m actually aromantic like, I’ve had crushes before, but they end up fading, sometimes quicker than I imagine they should. Maybe I’m on the spectrum? But I’ve called myself biromantic graysexual for so long that its one of the only parts of me I like and don’t want to change. Does this even make sense?

[olgaborovaya]

Special for Delanikka Shop 

[elisfalling]

Any asexual or agender people out there?

I'm panromantic asexual and agender and feeling really lonely. Feel free to shoot me a message or even an anon! Please

[kiss-myy16-blog]

Desculpa família tradicional brasileira

[maggiechsae]

thoughts/rants advice?

okay. so ive always seen my sexuality as something very fluid. and i still do. but ive found comfort and truth in identifying as pansexual for the past say three years? so ive always just assumed im panromantic too. ive never really been super lovey dovey or touchey feely with my romantic partners in the past. like i hug everyone and put my hand on people when i talk to them, but theres never really been a huge difference in how i act with my close friends vs how i act with my partner. ive never been very fond of kissing at all or romantic things either. relationships stress me out and overall im just not very good at them. plus ive allwaayyyss put more weight and more importance on platonic relationships than romantic ones. now i do have a boyfriend of a little over a year and a half (on and off) and like..i am very sexually attracted to him. and i do have very very strong feelings for him (stronger than how i feel about most people, which is hecka strong) and ive always been such a passionate person with everyone i know and love and everything i do. so i just thought "oh im not good at relationships so of course i dont like them" but i think i just came out to my boyfriend. or my subconscious did. i was super super upset because i feel like i get very overwhelmed with the relationship sometimes. and i brought up the term aromantic. saying that "theres no way that can be me because i complain when he doesnt show effort and i love him" (but i also complain when my friends dont show effort and i love them-differently of course) and i just brushed the term aside because that cant be me. i fall so in love with everything i do. and ive always told my self how ive found a billion and one platonic soul mates and my relationships with people are so important. so theres no way i could be aromantic. but he kind of lingered on the word for a bit. and we started talking about how i really do dislike most parts of a relationship. and how while i do love him and it is different. i really hate relationships. and by this point i had just started crying. bawling really. and he kind of hugged me (i like hugs...muuchh more than kisses) and he told me it was okay. and i kept repeating that i still loved him and that maybe i just needed to get used to a relationship. but he told me that all these fancy words and terms are different for everyone. and not everyone is the same. and given how overwhelmed the whole romantic thing made me feel that i might actually be aromantic. i sort of argued with him on this. because ill lay in bed with him for hours and go to the mall and spend my day with him. and ive fallen in love before. i love people. i really do. but to be completely honest with you guys i dont know if its romantic at all? its definitely different than how i feel say about my best friends or family. but i honestly dont know if i would classify it as romantic. i freak out when hes too touchy feely or cutesy and i say powerful things and loving things, but i get so overwhelmed by the idea of a relationship and sex is nice. and friendship is nice. cuddling is nice. but i just dont think being this overwhelmed (and its happened in all my previous relationships as well) i just dont think its normal? so idk. i just. idk my sexuality is fluid and everything can change. but...i think i might be aromantic. like maybe not typical? and ill probably just keep ignoring it. but given the amount i cried when he brought it up. i think i just came out to my boyfriend?

[kotabombastic]

Just because I'm asexual doesn't mean I don't want a relationship

[thepunsarereal-blog]

Me: You know, I wasn't sure about my sexuality at first, but now it's crystal queer.

Friend: You need to stop with the puns.

Me: Whoa no need to bee bi-ased.